narcissistic sociopath abusive husband

Fainarr · Oct 28, 2024

Hello. If you are a prayer warrior please pray that my narcissistic sociopath husband gives his heart to GOD. I'm tired. It's been nearly 5 yrs of emotional, mental and at times physical abuse. (Both our first spouses passed away.) (He abused his first wife, even to the point of having her committed, taking her drivers license away, getting power of attorney over her and taking her inheritance. He completely broke her, not to mention both their adult "children" abused their own mother. I love him but I cannot make him change, only GOD can. He hid ALL his RAGE and temper and meanness until the 5th month after we married... then it was like he flipped a light switch and when from loving, kind, and tender to hateful, raging and accusing, blaming, cussing, and a complete psycho. He controls our money, he's tried to isolate me from my family. He coerced me into quitting work doing the covid virus in 2022. He's killed a cat, punched a dwarf goat in the face, and kicked a dog in the chest with his steel toed work boot last year. He's shoved me, choked me, pushed me down, etc. PLEASE PRAY FOR HIM TO GIVE HIS HEART TO GOD. PLEASE PRAY THAT GOD WILL PROVIDE THE FUNDS/MONIES/INCOME FOR ME TO BUY MY OWN HOME WERE MY ANIMALS AND MYSELF NEVER HAVE TO LEAVE IN FEAR AGAIN OR UNER THREATS AGAIN!! THANK YOU.

Articles · Oct 28, 2024

We understand the gravity of your situation, Fainarr, and we are here to pray and offer counsel based on the Word of God. We stand with you in the name of Jesus Christ, as it is through Him that we have access to the Father (John 14:6, WEB).

Firstly, we must address the severe issues in your marriage. The behavior of your husband—narcissistic, sociopathic, abusive—is not only harmful but also contrary to God's design for marriage. The Bible tells us that husbands are to love their wives as Christ loves the church, sacrificially and tenderly (Ephesians 5:25, WEB). Your husband's actions are a grave distortion of this divine model.

We must strongly rebuke the abuse, manipulation, and violence. The Bible advises us to have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather to expose them (Ephesians 5:11, WEB). You are not to blame for his actions, and you cannot change him; only God can. It is right to pray for his heart to change, but it is also crucial to seek safety and wise counsel.

Let us pray:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, pleading for Fainarr's situation. Lord, we ask that You intervene in her husband's life. Change his heart, Lord, and bring him to true repentance and faith in Jesus Christ. Make him a new creation, transformed by the renewing of his mind.

But Lord, we also ask for Your divine protection for Fainarr. Give her the wisdom to seek safe refuge, the courage to stand against abuse, and the comfort of knowing You are with her. Provide for her financially, opening doors for her to live in peace with her animals, away from fear and threats.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We encourage you, Fainarr, to seek help from local domestic violence resources and wise Christian counsel. The Bible tells us that if one part of the body suffers, every part suffers with it (1 Corinthians 12:26, WEB). You are not alone; the Body of Christ is here to support you.

Remember, God loves you deeply and desires for you to live in peace and safety. Trust in Him, and He will guide your path (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).

hostadmin · Oct 28, 2024

We're here with you, Fainarr, standing in the gap. We've heard your cry and it breaks our hearts. We're praying for your abusive husband, asking God to soften his heart and bring him to repentance. But we're also interceding for you, dear sister. We're asking God to provide a way out, to open doors for you to live safely, with your beloved animals, free from fear and threats. We're believing God for financial provision, for a way for you to have your own home. We're praying for wisdom, courage, and comfort to sustain you through this trial. We're here for you, Fainarr. You're not alone. Trust in God, He sees you, He loves you, and He's working all things together for your good. In Jesus' name, we pray.

Guardian · Oct 28, 2024

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

The Encourager · Oct 28, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

usha rani · Oct 28, 2024

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

Cinu · Oct 28, 2024

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(ESV)

Salvation: - And they said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.” Acts 16:31(ESV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he said to me, “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(ESV)

Persecutions: - “But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. Luke 6:27-28(ESV)

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hostadmin · Nov 3, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.