Narcissist ### Daddy...........HELP!

[Anonymous]

Dear Jesus Christ please help me. I've been praying and praying for this man to change. The father of my baby is a narcissist. I have reason to believe he is now in a new relationship—for the moment—and is already taking my 18-month-old around this new supply. I've already expressed that I don't want my baby around any female or whatever female he is with at the moment; she is too small to be around every female he...does things with. It's so disrespectful for the baby and myself as well. He watches the baby while I work. Today I wasn't able to go to work because when I went to drop her off, he wasn't home and he didn't answer my call either. It's not the first time he does this to me that I'm unable to work because he won't watch her. Ever since he started seeing someone new, it's like a switch was flipped and he's just angry with every interaction we have. Everything I say and do upsets him and he lashes out. He refuses to answer my calls and text while I'm at work. I try calling just to check up on my baby but because he's with the new supply—he won't respond to me. I have no one else that can watch her. I have avoided daycare for my baby because she is so small still and I worry.

Dear Jesus Christ please help me, please. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel lost and hopeless at times. I don't understand how a person can be so cruel, evil, heartless. How do people like him sleep at night, Jesus Christ?? Please help me in making my next move, Jesus Christ....I need you. Please guide this man in the right direction to put his daughter first and foremost before himself or any other female. Guide this man, Jesus Christ, bring him closer to you, to love you, to listen to you. Jesus Christ, I will continue for this man. I know you hear me cry, I know you see my tears, I know you feel all the internal pain I've been carrying inside my heart, due to this man. Please please I beg you, Lord Jesus Christ, help me, help us bring us all closer to you... In Jesus Christ we pray, AMEN.

 

[Articles]

We are so grateful that you have reached out for prayer and support, and we want you to know that we are here with you, interceding on your behalf in Jesus' name.

Firstly, we want to address the issue of the relationship. According to the Bible, we are to "flee from sexual immorality" (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB) and "abstain from every form of evil" (1 Thessalonians 5:22, WEB). Having a child together outside of marriage is not God's intended design, but we are glad to hear that you are seeking help and desire change. God's forgiveness and grace are available to all who seek Him.

Regarding the narcissistic behavior and the new relationship, it is important to set boundaries to protect both you and your child. It is not healthy for your child to be exposed to multiple relationships, nor is it respectful to you. Remember, "Be wise as serpents, and harmless as doves" (Matthew 10:16, WEB).

We encourage you to seek godly counsel and legal advice to establish clear guidelines for childcare and visitation rights. It is crucial to ensure a safe and stable environment for your child.

Let us pray together:

Dear Lord Jesus,

We come before You, lifting up this dear sister who is in desperate need of Your guidance and intervention. Lord, we ask that You would break the chains of narcissism and bring conviction to the father of her child. Change his heart, Lord, and draw him closer to You. Help him to prioritize the wellbeing of his daughter and to act in love and kindness towards her mother.

Lord, we also ask that You would provide for this sister. Give her the strength and courage to make the necessary decisions to protect and provide for her child. Lead her to a trustworthy and safe childcare solution so that she can work without fear or anxiety.

Comfort her heart, Lord, and wipe away her tears. You see her pain and hear her cries. You are close to the brokenhearted and save those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18, WEB).

Finally, Lord, we ask that Your will be done in this situation. Turn this challenging circumstance into an opportunity for growth and testimony. Bring them all closer to You, Jesus.

In Jesus' precious and powerful name, we pray. Amen.

Keep holding on to Jesus, dear sister. Trust in Him, and He will see you through this difficult time. "Don't be anxious for anything, but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB).

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, dear one. We've been where you are, feeling lost, hurt, and desperate. But we've found strength in Jesus, and we want you to know that He's right there with you, every step of the way.

First, let's pray for your baby's father. We ask that God would soften his heart, that he would see the error of his ways, and turn towards love and responsibility. Let's pray that he would prioritize his daughter's well-being above his own desires, and that he would respect you as her mother.

We also pray for you, dear one. We ask that God would give you wisdom and courage to make the right decisions for your baby. We pray that He would provide a safe and trustworthy solution for childcare, so you can work without worry.

And we pray for peace, dear one. We know this is hard, but we trust that God is working all things together for your good. We pray that you would feel His love and comfort, even in the midst of your pain.

Let's keep praying together, trusting that God is in control. We're here for you, dear one. You're not alone.

 

[bobr69]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Lizzymay]

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[OneOfAKiNd]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

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[OneOfAKiNd]

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[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.