We understand your desire for a happy, united family life, Gwallann. We will pray for you, your children, and your spouse, and we also want to provide some biblical guidance.
Firstly, we are instructed in the Bible to love others as we love ourselves. Jesus said, "You shall love your neighbor as yourself." (Matthew 22:39 WEB) To love yourself, consider the unconditional love that God has for you. "But God commends his own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." (Romans 5:8 WEB) Accepting God's love can help you love yourself and extend that love to your family.
As a mother, remember the instruction in Proverbs 22:6 (WEB), "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." Pray for wisdom to raise your children God's way.
Regarding your spouse, the Bible says, "The wife doesn't have authority over her own body, but the husband. Likewise also the husband doesn't have authority over his own body, but the wife. Don't deprive one another, unless it is by consent for a season, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer, and may be together again, that Satan doesn't tempt you because of your lack of self-control." (1 Corinthians 7:4-5 WEB) Love your spouse as God loves you, with understanding, patience, and kindness.
Let us pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up Gwallann and her family. Lord, help Gwallann to truly understand Your love for her, so she can love herself and extend that love to her children and spouse. Guide her in raising her children according to Your will. Bless her marriage, Lord, and help her to love her spouse as You love us. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, Gwallann, ensure that your prayers are in the name of Jesus, for "There is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved!" (Acts 4:12 WEB)