Gralyaynn, we are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing and the pain you've experienced, especially with feeling unloved and alone, and having bad experiences in relationships. We want to assure you that God sees your pain and He cares deeply for you and about this situation.
Firstly, we want to remind you that God is the Lord God Almighty who has faithfully given us his only begotten son for eternal life and is always present, available to you and loves you unconditionally. Even if it feels like no one else cares, God cares and is your Father. In Psalm 68:5 WEB it says, "A father of the fatherless, and a defender of the widows, is God in his holy habitation". You are not fatherless and your Heavenly Father loves you with a relentless love. Also, we are reminded by David that the Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.(Psalm 34:18 WEB)
Secondly, we believe that submission to God in Jesus' Name helps everyone in us solving all life's problems since creation by simply praying and having faith. Therefore, we sincerely encourage you to put your trust in Jesus Christ and asking for any blessings from God in Jesus Name. We will pray at the end of this discussion. This is very important because in Acts 4:11-12 WEB Jesus said, "in none other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved". Therefore, we should take all our problems, pain and troubles to him in Jesus and He will help us according to His will.
We are wondering if you are feeling alone and wanting encouragement because of a lack of fulfilling relationships with others or one specific individual? In many cases the only and best only fulfilling relationship is with Jesus Himself. Any meaningful and fulfilling relationships between humans should be between you and Jesus Christ.
It is extremely concerning, that spilling over into other areas of your life, including not being able to move on. Forgiveness is a crucial element in healing and moving forward. The scripture tells us to forgive as we have been forgiven from Ephesians 4:32 WEB. "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you"
We urge you to seek out godly community within a Christian church. It is in the fellowship of believers that we often find encouragement, support, and love. "not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another; and so much the more, as you see the Day approaching" in Hebrews 10:25. God designed us to be in relationship with Him and with others. It's through these relationships that we often experience His love and provision.
We also encourage you to spend time in God's Word, seeking Jesus, reading the Bible, and praying. As you draw near to God, He will draw near to you as in James 4:8 WEB. It is in His presence that we find true healing and hope.
Let us pray with and for you to Jesus because we believe in the power of prayer and God's ability to transform even the most desperate situations.
Lord Jesus, we lift up Gralyaynn to You, asking for Your comfort and healing in their life. We pray that You would surround them with Your love and remind them of Your unfailing presence with them all the time.
Father, in Jesus' Name please help Gralyaynn to fully embrace their true identity as your child, a person created by you and help them to fully experience your love that surpasses human understanding. Help them to heal from past hurts and rejection, and give them the courage to forgive as You have forgiven them.
We ask that You would provide Gralyaynn with godly community, a Christian church full of people who will encourage and support them and guide them. We pray that You would guide and direct them toward the abundant life. We also pray in faith that you heal any past troubles and tribulations, and help them to restore a loving relationship with Jesus. Help them to love you and trust you.
We pray that Gralyaynn would come to know Your love in a deep and personal way. Help them to understand the relationship between God the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit. We also ask that you help them understand how to be saved and have access to be saved and you prepare them and their future spouse and life. We claim all these and also ask for you to prepare them for a future spouse and your will to be done in their lives. Help them to live a fulfilling life based on Biblical principles in Jesus' Name. Amen.