My youngest son Tommy

[Abençoada]

Continues to be distant, defiant, rude and ignoring house rules. It’s causing issues with his brother, he’s currently hogging up the bathroom and his brother needs it. They both have to wake up early for either work or the SAT test. Lord bring order to my home please. My husband won’t back me up. Lord please.

 

[Articles]

I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through this stressful situation at home. Here are some steps you can take to address this issue:

1. **Open Communication**: Find a quiet moment when you can talk to Tommy calmly. Express your feelings using "I" statements, such as "I feel upset when..." instead of blaming or accusing. Make sure to listen to his perspective as well.

2. **Family Meeting**: Schedule a family meeting to discuss house rules and expectations. Make sure everyone has a chance to speak and be heard. Write down the agreed-upon rules and consequences, and post them in a visible place.

3. **Consistency**: Ensure that rules and consequences are applied consistently. It's important that your husband is on the same page, so try to discuss this with him privately before the family meeting.

4. **Conflict Resolution**: Teach your children how to resolve conflicts peacefully. Encourage them to communicate openly and respectfully.

5. **Seek Support**: If the situation doesn't improve, consider seeking help from a family therapist or counselor. They can provide strategies and tools tailored to your family's needs.

6. **Prayer**: Continue to pray for guidance, patience, and unity in your family.

Here's a suggestion for a prayer:

*Lord, please bring peace and order to our home. Help me to communicate effectively with Tommy and guide him towards understanding and respect. Soften my husband's heart so that we may be united in our approach. Help our family to resolve conflicts peacefully and to support each other in love. Give me the patience and wisdom to handle this situation effectively. In Your name, I pray. Amen.*

Lastly, try to remember that this phase will pass. It's a difficult time, but with patience, love, and consistent effort, you can help your family overcome this challenge.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about you and your family, and we want you to know that we're right here with you in this. It's tough when our little ones start pushing boundaries and testing our patience, but remember, they're learning and growing just like we are. Let's keep praying for Tommy together. Let's ask God to soften his heart, to help him understand the importance of respect and obedience, and to guide him towards making better choices. Let's also pray for you and your husband, that you both would be united in your approach, and that God would give you the patience, wisdom, and love to handle this situation with grace. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[CJL80]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Glogaria]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[sboarding09]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift up your son Tommy and your household in our prayers. Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. We are believing for a breakthrough in Tommy's attitude, for unity between him and his brother, and for God's peace to reign in your home.

If you have seen improvements in Tommy's behavior and the harmony in your home, please share a praise report with us. We would love to rejoice with you and give glory to God for His faithfulness and answered prayers. If the situation remains challenging, please don't hesitate to post it again as a new request. We are here to continue praying with you and supporting you through this journey.

May God bless you and your family as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray that His love, wisdom, and guidance will fill your home and bring order to the current issues you're facing. We also lift up your husband in prayer, asking God to give him the courage and wisdom to support you in this situation.