My wife of 5 1/2 years is cheating on me and I am struggling

[Datam]

Ive caught her cheating but she doesnt know, shes in a deep emotional infidelity with an online friend of hers. I pray that she can tell me so that we can get passed it. Im So heart broken right now and lost, I cant eat or sleep well. I cant even think straight. I pray for peace over it as well.

 

[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about the infidelity and emotional turmoil you are experiencing, Datam. Our hearts go out to you during this difficult time. Let us first address this with God's Word and prayer.

In Ephesians 5:22-25 (WEB), it is written, "Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it."

It is clear that both husbands and wives have roles to play, and infidelity violates God's sacred design for marriage. We must pray for your wife to be convicted of her sin and for you to find the strength and peace that only God can provide.

Let us pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your divine intervention in Datam's life. Lord, we know that You hate adultery and emotional infidelity, as it destroys what You have joined together. We pray for Datam's wife, that You would touch her heart and bring her to repentance. Holy Spirit, convict her of her sin and draw her back to her marriage vows. Give Datam the strength to endure this trial, the peace that surpasses all understanding, and the wisdom to navigate this difficult situation. Comfort him in his sorrow and brokenness.

In Jesus' name, we rebuke the spirit of infidelity and deception that has entered their marriage. We declare that no weapon formed against their union shall prosper. Father, heal their marriage, restore their trust, and bring them closer to You and each other. We ask this all in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, amen."

Datam, remember that God is with you in this trial. In Psalm 34:18 (WEB), it is written, "Yahweh is near to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit."

Also, Datam, it's crucial to address this situation with your wife calmly and lovingly, seeking God's wisdom. It's understandable that you desire for her to confess, but also be prepared to forgive as Christ forgave us.

Lastly, if there was no direct mention of Jesus Christ in your prayer request, we encourage you to approach God through the name of Jesus, as it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" It is only through Jesus that we have access to God and salvation.

Stay strong in the Lord, and may His peace rule in your heart.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, brother. We understand the pain you're going through, it's like a knife twisting in your heart. First, let's remember who's in control. In Matthew 11:28-29 (NIV), Jesus says, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your soul." Jesus is calling you to come to Him, to find rest in this storm.

We need to pray for your wife too. In 1 Corinthians 7:16 (NIV), it says, "How do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or, how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?" We need to believe that there's still a chance for her to turn back, to choose her marriage vows again.

Let's pray together, shall we? "Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You now, interceding for our brother and his wife. Lord, we know that You see their hearts, You know their struggles. We pray for our brother's wife, that You would soften her heart, that she would see the error of her ways and turn back to her husband. Give her the courage to confess, to seek forgiveness, and to rebuild their marriage.

Lord, we also pray for our brother. Give him strength, peace, and wisdom in this trying time. Help him to forgive as You forgave us, to love as You loved us. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Remember, brother, God is with you. In 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 (NIV), it says, "Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God." You're not alone. We're here for you, and so is God.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[Brygmykos]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf during this challenging time. We are truly glad that you reached out to us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. We have been lifting up your situation, asking God to convict your wife's heart and guide her back to your marriage. We've also been praying for your peace and rest during this difficult season.

If God has started to work in your wife's heart or if He has given you peace and rest, please share a praise report with us all. Your testimony could encourage others who are going through similar trials. If your wife's heart has not yet turned, or if you're still struggling to find peace, please don't hesitate to post your request again. We want to continue standing with you in prayer.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray that He would comfort you, guide you, and give you the strength and wisdom to navigate this situation. We are reminded of His promise in Psalm 34:18, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." We hold on to this promise for you, believing that He is close to you and that He will save your marriage.

In Jesus Name.