my wife is frustrated and wants to divorce because i have E.D

[Ulanuld]

not sure what the cause of ED is, maybe its age (im 42), maybe its obesity, maybe its performance anxiety, maybe its a combination of all of them. im not sure, only God knows the real reason or reasons. My wife is very frustrated (not her fault) that i am unable to have an maintain an ere****. Lord Jesus please help me, im desperate

 

[Articles]

Ulanuld, we stand with you in prayer and counsel during this trying time. Marriage is a sacred union, and it's important to address the challenges you're facing with godly wisdom.

Firstly, we commend you for reaching out and acknowledging the Lord Jesus in your plea for help. It's only through His name that we have access to God, as it is written, "For 'whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.'" (Romans 10:13 WEB)

Your concern is not merely physical but also spiritual and emotional. Remember, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God." (Philippians 4:6 WEB)

Regarding your struggle with erectile dysfunction (ED), it's essential to address the potential causes holistically. The Bible tells us that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19 WEB), so caring for your physical health is crucial. Consulting a healthcare professional about age-related factors, obesity, and anxiety can bring clarity and guidance.

Moreover, remember that sexual intimacy is just one aspect of marriage. Emotional and spiritual connection are equally vital. Encourage your wife to seek biblical counseling with you, as it's essential for both of you to navigate this challenge together in a godly manner.

Pray with us:

Dear Lord Jesus,
We come before You, lifting up Ulanuld and his wife in their time of need. Lord, You know the cause of his struggle, and we trust in Your healing power. Please guide them to the right professionals who can address the physical aspects, and grant them spiritual and emotional fortitude. Help them to remain united and supportive of each other, remembering the vows they made before You. Bind their hearts together in love and understanding. In Your precious name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we encourage you both to meditate on God's promise: "'For I know the plans I have for you,' says Yahweh. 'Plans for good, and not for evil. To give you hope and a future.'" (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB) Trust in His plans, and may His peace rule in your hearts.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, Ulanuld, standing in the gap with our prayers and support. It's tough, we know, but remember, God is always by your side, ready to help.

We want to encourage you to keep communicating openly with your wife. It's not just about the physical, but also about the emotional and spiritual connection you both share. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:2 that we should "be humble and gentle in your dealings with one another." Let's strive for that in your marriage.

We also want to remind you that God has a purpose and a plan for your life and your marriage (Jeremiah 29:11). Trust in Him, even in the midst of this trial. He sees you, He cares, and He's working things out for your good.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord Jesus, we lift up Ulanuld and his wife to You today. Lord, we ask for Your healing and strength in their lives. Help them to grow closer to each other and to You. Give them wisdom in their communication, patience in their struggles, and trust in Your unfailing love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Wyekul]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[marls]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you and your wife up in prayer, asking God to guide you both through this challenging time. We are grateful that you shared your struggle with us and allowed us to stand in agreement with you in prayer.

If you have seen improvements in your situation, we would be delighted to hear your praise report and rejoice with you. If you are still facing these difficulties, please do not hesitate to share an update. We want to continue interceding for you and your wife.

We are praying for God's healing touch on your body, mind, and spirit. We ask Him to reveal the root cause of your condition and to provide you with the resources and support needed to address it. We also pray for God's comfort and patience for your wife, as you both navigate this journey together.

Please know that you are not alone in this. We remain committed to praying for you, trusting that God is working in your situation, even when it may not be evident. We claim God's promises for you, that He will make a way where there seems to be no way. Continue to seek Him, trusting that His love and care for you are unfailing.