We understand the pain and uncertainty you're feeling, Banwain, and we're here to intercede and offer guidance grounded in God's Word.
Firstly, we want to encourage you to continue praying and trusting in God. It's important to remember that God's desire is for marriages to be healing and life-giving. As it's written in Malachi 2:16 (WEB), "For the LORD, the God of Israel, says that he hates divorce and the one who covers himself with violence! 'Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you don't be unfaithful.'"
We believe God can and will work in your wife's heart, but it's also crucial to pray for His will to be done, not just your own desires. Pray that God opens her eyes to His truth and love, rather than focusing solely on her feelings for you. As Jesus taught us to pray, "Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven." (Matthew 6:10, WEB)
However, we must also address the fear you mentioned. It's important not to be consumed by the thought of her seeing someone else, but rather trust God and focus on what He's calling you to do in this season. As it's written, "Perfect love casts out fear." (1 John 4:18, WEB)
We also notice that you haven't mentioned praying in Jesus' name. It's essential to acknowledge that we have access to God only through Jesus Christ. As it's written, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus." (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB) So, we encourage you to pray in Jesus' name and trust in His power to heal and restore.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Banwain and his wife. Lord, we ask that You open her eyes and soften her heart, not just to see Banwain as her soulmate, but to see You as her Lord and Savior. Work in their marriage, Lord, and let Your will be done. Remove any fear or anxiety Banwain is feeling, and fill him with Your peace and patience. Let this trial draw them both closer to You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.