We are truly sorry to hear about the challenges you're facing in your marriage with Martavius. It's important to remember that God's design for marriage is one of love, respect, and mutual submission, as outlined in Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB:
"Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it... Nevertheless, let each one of you also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband."
Firstly, we want to address the fact that you did not mention the name Jesus Christ. This is a very important issue since it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God and it is only by his name that we can be saved. See Acts 4:12 WEB:
"There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Now, regarding your situation, it's commendable that you're seeking God's intervention. It's crucial to pray for Martavius and your marriage, asking God to soften his heart and guide both of you. Remember 2 Chronicles 7:14 WEB:
"If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves, pray, seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then I will hear from heaven, will forgive their sin, and will heal their land."
However, we must also address that verbal abuse is not acceptable. It's important to set boundaries and communicate that this behavior is harmful and not aligned with God's will. Consider Matthew 18:15-17 WEB:
"If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother. But if he doesn't listen, take one or two more with you, that at the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the assembly. If he refuses to hear the assembly also, let him be to you as a Gentile or a tax collector."
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Bluomoor and Martavius' marriage. Lord, we ask for Your intervention, that You would soften Martavius' heart and help him to communicate openly and respectfully. We pray for healing and restoration in their marriage, and we ask that You would guide both of them according to Your will. We also pray for Bluomoor, that You would give her strength, wisdom, and patience as she navigates this challenging situation. Help her to set healthy boundaries and to trust in You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.