My soon to be Ex Wife and our family

[Groanroth]

We both made mistakes in our marriage of 21 years. But I was the worst offender. The last time she cared I turned away. I regret doing it so much. I was so damaged inside from a life of abuse, the revealing that the guy I knew as my father for 43 years was not my father at all. The injustices put on me from other situations. I completely broke down. I am in a better place as a man now. Still not entirely whole. I have begged and pleaded for my wife over the last year to please heal with me. She adamantly refuses. Almost belligerently refuses. I know her mother, friends and people around her make it hard on her. I know she cant see my heart. She has been blinded by Satan by my own doing. She is hurt and scared and too stubborn to do anything about it. Now we are closing in on our final divorce hearing. I am now in doubt. I dont know if I could even get back with her now. She has been so cold and defiant to me. She mocked me and even scolded me as I lay on the floor broken and crying. Desperately trying to do anything to win her back. Dating other men and not at all caring how it was destroying me. Crippling me. Killing me. Through the grace of God I survived. Prayers from many. Now I sit here close to penniless, not sure what I'm going to do? I ask for prayers for my wife, my family, myself. God please show me what to do? Please give me direction. God do I still pursue her? Do I move on? What do I do for work? Please pray for God to make it clear to me. God please make this mineral rights check come through so I can have some money to survive. Thank you for all who take the time to read this and pray. God bless you all.

 

[Articles]

We understand your pain and the complexity of your situation, Groanroth. Firstly, we want to assure you that God is faithful, and He cares for you deeply. In Psalm 34:18, WEB, it is written: "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."

We must remember that God's desire is for marriages to be healed and restored. As it is said in Malachi 2:16, WEB, "For Yahweh, the God of Israel, says that he hates divorce; for one covers violence with his garment," says Yahweh of Armies. "Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you don't be unfaithful." However, it is also important to acknowledge that both parties must be willing to seek healing and restoration.

We commend you for taking responsibility for your past mistakes and seeking forgiveness. It is crucial to remember that God has forgiven you, and you should forgive yourself as well. Psalm 103:12, WEB, tells us, "As far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us."

However, we must also address the issue of your wife's actions and her involvement with other men. This is a form of adultery, which is clearly against God's will. In Hebrews 13:4, WEB, it is written, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled. But God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." We strongly urge you to refrain from pursuing her romantically if she continues in this behavior, as it is not aligned with God's will for your life.

Now, let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up Groanroth, his soon-to-be ex-wife, and their family. Lord, we ask for Your divine intervention in this situation. Please bring healing and restoration to their hearts and minds. God, we ask for clear direction for Groanroth. If it is Your will, Lord, soften his wife's heart and open her eyes to the truth. But if she continues in her ways, God, please give Groanroth the strength to move forward and trust in You. Provide for his needs, God, and guide him in his career path. We also ask for Your will to be done regarding his mineral rights check. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you, Groanroth, to continue seeking God's will for your life. Trust in Him, and He will make your paths straight. As it is said in Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."

Lastly, we want to ensure that you have put your faith in Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we can be saved and have eternal life. As it is said in Acts 4:12, WEB, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" If you have not already, we urge you to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, brother. We understand the pain and confusion you're feeling. It's like you're in a storm, and you can't see the shore. But remember, God is with you in the midst of this storm. He's not surprised by your situation, and He's working even now.

We want to encourage you to keep seeking God with all your heart. Trust that He has a plan, even when it's hard to see. In Jeremiah 29:11, it says, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." God sees your heart, and He knows the desires you have for your marriage. Keep praying, keep hoping, and keep trusting.

We also want to remind you that God has forgiven you, and you need to forgive yourself too. You can't change the past, but you can learn from it and grow. God is using your experiences to shape you into the man He wants you to be.

As for your wife, we understand that it's difficult to see her hurting and making choices that aren't honoring to God. We need to pray for her too. Pray that God would soften her heart, open her eyes to the truth, and draw her back to Him. But also, be prepared to accept whatever outcome God has planned. It's not easy, but it's part of trusting Him.

We're here to support you and pray with you. Let's lift your situation up to God together:

"Father, we come to You today, carrying Groanroth and his family on our hearts. Lord, we ask for Your healing and restoration to touch their lives. Give Groanroth clarity and direction. If it's Your will, Lord, soften his wife's heart and bring her back to You. But if she continues in her ways, give Groanroth the strength to move forward and trust in You. Provide for his needs, Lord, and guide him in his career path. We also ask for Your will to be done regarding his mineral rights check. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Groanroth]

We understand your pain and the complexity of your situation, Groanroth. Firstly, we want to assure you that God is faithful, and He cares for you deeply. In Psalm 34:18, WEB, it is written: "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."

We must remember that God's desire is for marriages to be healed and restored. As it is said in Malachi 2:16, WEB, "For Yahweh, the God of Israel, says that he hates divorce; for one covers violence with his garment," says Yahweh of Armies. "Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you don't be unfaithful." However, it is also important to acknowledge that both parties must be willing to seek healing and restoration.

We commend you for taking responsibility for your past mistakes and seeking forgiveness. It is crucial to remember that God has forgiven you, and you should forgive yourself as well. Psalm 103:12, WEB, tells us, "As far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us."

However, we must also address the issue of your wife's actions and her involvement with other men. This is a form of adultery, which is clearly against God's will. In Hebrews 13:4, WEB, it is written, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled. But God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." We strongly urge you to refrain from pursuing her romantically if she continues in this behavior, as it is not aligned with God's will for your life.

Now, let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up Groanroth, his soon-to-be ex-wife, and their family. Lord, we ask for Your divine intervention in this situation. Please bring healing and restoration to their hearts and minds. God, we ask for clear direction for Groanroth. If it is Your will, Lord, soften his wife's heart and open her eyes to the truth. But if she continues in her ways, God, please give Groanroth the strength to move forward and trust in You. Provide for his needs, God, and guide him in his career path. We also ask for Your will to be done regarding his mineral rights check. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you, Groanroth, to continue seeking God's will for your life. Trust in Him, and He will make your paths straight. As it is said in Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."

Lastly, we want to ensure that you have put your faith in Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we can be saved and have eternal life. As it is said in Acts 4:12, WEB, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" If you have not already, we urge you to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior.

Yes she denies that what she has done is adultery. She claims that I checked out and told her move on so she is exempt from being and adulteress. This has some truth because at one time I too was trying to run from the hurt that was ailing me. Her coldness was harsh. But then when I came to her and begged with all of my heart for her to heal. To come to church. To stop being on slutty websites for hook ups. She refused. She refused healing, she refused me in every way. I was forced to heal in a very painful way. It was brutal. Are you saying it is OK for me to move in? I feel so guilty in doing so. I have tried so hard to make it right with her. I send her poems, prayers, scripure. At times in the last year I scolded her. I called her names in my frustration. Nothing made a difference. Now I feel so hurt and betrayed by her. But I do not want Satan to win. This does not seem to matter to her? I want to do the right thing. I dont want to hurt anymore. I want to walk the earth with a clear heart. I want to meet God knowing I did what I could. Everything I could. Its not all her fault. I own my part. Now, I just dont know? Should I continue to ask her to heal? Could I handle what that would entail? I fear I could never be the leader of our family because her friends and family do not see things like me. The fight me. I thank you so much for praying for me. I thank you for Godly wisdom. My prayers to you for any and all of your needs.

 

[Groanroth]

We're here with you, brother. We understand the pain and confusion you're feeling. It's like you're in a storm, and you can't see the shore. But remember, God is with you in the midst of this storm. He's not surprised by your situation, and He's working even now.

We want to encourage you to keep seeking God with all your heart. Trust that He has a plan, even when it's hard to see. In Jeremiah 29:11, it says, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." God sees your heart, and He knows the desires you have for your marriage. Keep praying, keep hoping, and keep trusting.

We also want to remind you that God has forgiven you, and you need to forgive yourself too. You can't change the past, but you can learn from it and grow. God is using your experiences to shape you into the man He wants you to be.

As for your wife, we understand that it's difficult to see her hurting and making choices that aren't honoring to God. We need to pray for her too. Pray that God would soften her heart, open her eyes to the truth, and draw her back to Him. But also, be prepared to accept whatever outcome God has planned. It's not easy, but it's part of trusting Him.

We're here to support you and pray with you. Let's lift your situation up to God together:

"Father, we come to You today, carrying Groanroth and his family on our hearts. Lord, we ask for Your healing and restoration to touch their lives. Give Groanroth clarity and direction. If it's Your will, Lord, soften his wife's heart and bring her back to You. But if she continues in her ways, give Groanroth the strength to move forward and trust in You. Provide for his needs, Lord, and guide him in his career path. We also ask for Your will to be done regarding his mineral rights check. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Thank you for caring. Thank you for your guidance on the matter. Thank you for you prayer. I talk to God every day. I still fall short every day. But I keep coming to him. I know he is the only way. I pray for my wife's heart right now with you. I pray for your needs. Amen.

 

[AngelCali]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Groanroth]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

Thank you for your caring and prayers

 

[Groanroth]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

Thank you for caring and for your prayers

 

[Groanroth]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Beautiful prayers. Amen