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Make the right things easy and the wrong things difficult. At 14 it's all about fear. If dad isn't around the consequences are going to be tough. You gotta step up your prayer request and make the boundaries real clear. If he's playing with drugs earl pregnancy or HIV or something like that is a part of it. I work in the heroine capital of America. I see it in 4 generations. From 13 to 80. He's crying for attention and he'll get it. From gangs or girls or the police. You have to make a commitment to live in faith and wisdom and to set firm boundaries. God gave you wisdom. You are the intervention and nobody else. He's got to get help tonight. What that is wherever you are I don't know. Reach out to juvenile courts or to get him in treatment. I see young boys go through 6 months of treatment get out in one day get high and overdose. I'm in New Mexico and drugs have ravaged this state. If he's doing drugs then he's messing up at school. That may be the only way to give him consequences. That's the bad news. Now I'm going to encourage you to get him in some program now not later this won't cure itself. He needs a male mentor or family member who has firm rules. He will cry and beg and promise and negotiate and say he hates you and wants to kill himself!!! Oh what a drama you're in for. You can't enable him with money or kindness. Again I don't know where you are but you need to find an Alanon meeting and you go by yourself. Meet parents of teen drug users. I lost 2 brothers and many friends because the parents were in straight up Denial. I tried everything except sitting on them until they got sober. We fought and argued and they lied and raged. I guess your post struck a cord. I've been collateral damage of drugs too many times. Call tonight a hot line even if it's suicide hot line they can recommend something. If you don't want to lose him and I know you don't. Love and prayers are always good but action is always the best thing. God had given you the answers. What are the odds? Because you asked and it was given. Keep posting they call me shathesca I don't know why but lots of others are helpful too. In Jesus name AmenMy son is 14 and making bad choices. Please ask the Lord to intervene so he makes better choices and stays away from drugs. Thanks. Rachel