My relationship

[Anonymous]

Please pray the Lord will show me my partner’s character and level of commitment and fidelity. If he’s in love with someone else or wants to be with someone else, pray he will just leave me for that person and not be afraid to leave me. We live together, so that could complicate things. Pray one of us will move out whether that is he or I if he is involved with someone else. We’ve been together 2 years. If he really does love me and wants to marry me pray the Lord will show me that this relationship is secure and how to proceed from here. Thank you.

 

[Articles]

We understand your concern about this and we are here together to help guide and pray with you. Jesus tells us, "The way to the Father is by believing in me" (John 14:6 WEB), and "Ask anything by my name and I will do it." (John 14:14 WEB) It is only in His name that we have access to God and can ask anything. So, because of this, we pray this in the name of Jesus Christ.

First, we must seek God's will together for your situation. We are all instructed in 1 Thessalonians 5:18 says, "To give thanks in all circumstances, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you" (WEB). So, rejoice in this circumstance God has placed you in and accept His will for your relationship. We all can praise God that He has definitely allowed you to be with your boyfriend for 2 years. God has used, and can use this relationship if it is honoring to Him to strengthen and teach you both. And He certainly will use this relationship to teach you both even if it is not honoring to Him.

This brings up an important issue. The Bible instructs in 1 Corinthians 7:18, "If you are a Christian man or a Christian woman, do not become a girlfriend or boyfriend to someone who is not a believer" (WEB). This is to spare us as believers from unequal yoking with unbelievers. Therefore, we trust you are both believers. So, if this applies, the boyfriend or girlfriend relationship you are in should be a courtship to possibly discern leading to marriage.

Next, let's address your concerns. It is notable that you did not specifically ask for God's will in this, so let's pray together right now seeking this. Dear Jesus, Help us discern Your will for this relationship. If we are wrongly discerning your will, or either of us is wrongly discerning your will for this relationship, use circumstances to guide us both to your will. We pray this together and agree this will bring peace and trust in anything that happens. In Jesus' name, Amen.

Now let's address other concerns you have. His commitment is something God will demonstrate in Him if it is there as time passes. And, if he is or wants to be with someone else, God will certainly allow circumstances to change and guide you both to move on. So, pray that God will show you this by your boyfriend's fruits. Jesus says in Matthew 7:16 "By their fruits you will recognize them. Do you gather grapes from thorns, or figs from thistles?" (WEB) Now, by your boyfriends fruits, we will know his character together. This will further help bring peace to you.

We must address the living together. This is not right if it is sexual, nor will it benefit either of you, your relationship with Jesus, or your relationship together. 1 Corinthians 6:18-19 "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own." (WEB) And Ephesians 5:3 says it explicitly. "But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints" (WEB). This needs to end as a practice for the relationship to continue.

Last, let's discuss moving out. Why don't you let God lead this? To do this the relationship needs to further God's will and lead to marriage if it is His will. Let's pray together for your will to be subordinated to God's will and for your peace and confidence in God taking control by showing you both His will and possibly confirming your love if it is in His will.

Dear Jesus,

We pray this relationship will glorify you and us as believers seeking Your will. We pray You guide us to repent of any sexual immorality and flee temptation in this relationship.

We pray for guidance through this relationship and demonstrate Your will for not only Anonymous, but also her boyfriend if the relationship honors you. We pray for their marriage if His will in Christ, Jesus or not in Christ as it was written. Finally, We pray You guide, by the Holy Spirit, and comfort them in this situation.

In Jesus' name, Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, praying for wisdom and clarity in your relationship. It's been two years, and that's a significant time. We believe God has a purpose in every situation, even this one. Let's ask Him to reveal His will for both of you. "Father, in Jesus' name, show us Your will for this relationship. Help us discern Your path, and guide us to follow it, no matter what it takes. Give us the strength to trust in Your plan, and the peace to accept it. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Duniog]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Eioch]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you and your relationship up in prayer, seeking the Lord's guidance and clarity. We are honored that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in this matter. If the Lord has revealed your partner's character and intentions, and you have found peace and assurance, please share your praise report so we can rejoice with you. If you are still seeking clarity and discernment, do not hesitate to post your request again. We are here to walk alongside you in prayer, trusting that the Lord will guide you both according to His will. May He bless you and give you strength and wisdom as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray for open communication, understanding, and a path forward that honors God's plan for your lives. We ask for peace and comfort.