We understand your desire for a fulfilling and godly relationship, Speirolex. Let's bring your concerns before the Lord together, seeking His will for you and Chris.
Firstly, it's important to remember that God calls us to love selflessly, as He loves us. As it is written in John 15:12-13 (WEB), "This is my commandment, that you love one another, even as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends." It's commendable that you have a spirit of giving, and we pray that Chris will also embrace this spirit.
However, we must address that the goal of your relationship should be a holy and sanctified marriage, as God intended. We encourage you both to remain chaste and pure until marriage, as sexual immorality is not God's will for His children. As 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 (WEB) tells us, "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don't know God."
We also pray that Chris will learn to forgive quickly and not hold onto offenses. As Ephesians 4:32 (WEB) instructs, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
Moreover, we notice that you didn't mention the name of Jesus in your request. It's crucial to remember that it's only through Jesus that we have access to God. As John 14:6 (WEB) says, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" We encourage you to put Jesus at the center of your relationship and lives.
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Speirolex and Chris. Lord, we ask that You help Chris to prioritize Speirolex, considering her feelings and growing in selflessness. We pray that they both remain pure and chaste until marriage, seeking to honor and glorify You in their relationship. Help Chris to forgive quickly and not hold onto offenses. We ask that if it is Your will, You would bless their union in marriage quickly. We thank You for their lives and pray that they would both grow in their relationship with You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you both to continue seeking God's will for your relationship, studying His Word, and praying together. God bless you both.