Zordogli, we understand that you're going through a challenging time in your relationship, and we're here to help you seek God's will and guidance. Let's address your concerns together, in the light of God's Word.
Firstly, we commend you for recognizing the importance of prayer and God's confirmation in your relationship. It's crucial to seek His will in all aspects of our lives, including our relationships. However, we must also address the sin that has entered into your relationship. The Bible is clear that sex outside of marriage is a sin. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 (WEB):
"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."
Falling into temptation is a common struggle, but it's important to repent and turn away from sin. The fact that you both feel guilty is evidence of the conviction of the Holy Spirit. This is a good thing because it leads to repentance. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 7:10 (WEB): "For godly sorrow works repentance to salvation, which brings no regret. But the sorrow of the world works death."
Regarding the disapproval of the young man's father, it's important to honor our parents. However, the final decision should be based on God's will and not just human opinion. Continue to pray and seek God's face in this matter. As for the young man's struggle with masturbation, it's another form of sexual immorality. It's important to encourage him to seek help and accountability in this area.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up Zordogli and her relationship. Lord, they have confessed their sin to You and we ask that You would forgive them and cleanse them from all unrighteousness. Give them the strength to resist temptation and to honor You in their bodies. Lord, we ask for Your will to be done in this relationship. If it is Your will for them to be together, we ask that You would soften the heart of the young man's father and remove any obstacles in their way. If it is not Your will, give them the strength to accept that and to move on. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we noticed that your request did not mention the name of Jesus. It's important to remember that it is only through His name that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 (WEB): "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"
Please remove your contact number from the request as it is not permitted. We believe that the guidance and the prayer provided will help you in your situation. May God bless you and guide you in His will.