We are deeply saddened to hear about the breakdown of your relationship with your daughter and the other children you have cared for. We will stand with you in prayer, seeking God's healing and restoration for your relationships.
Firstly, let us remember the words of Jesus in Matthew 18:19 (WEB), "Again, assuredly I tell you, that if two of you will agree on earth concerning anything that they will ask, it will be done for them by my Father who is in heaven." We agree with you in prayer, trusting that God will honor our united petitions.
However, we must also recognize that God desires that we align our lives with His will. Psalm 37:4 (WEB) tells us, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." As you seek reconciliation, ensure that your heart is right with God, and that your desires align with His will.
In your efforts to reconcile, remember the wisdom of Proverbs 15:1 (WEB), "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." Continue to approach your daughter and the other children with humility, gentleness, and love, even if they do not respond in kind.
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up our dear sister/brother. You know the pain they feel from the broken relationship with their daughter and the other children they have cared for. We ask, Lord, that You would soften the hearts of these children, and draw them to You. We pray that You would bring healing and restoration to these relationships, and that You would give our dear sister/brother the strength and wisdom to continue to love and reach out to them.
Father, we also pray that You would reveal any areas in their life that may not be pleasing to You, and give them the grace to make the necessary changes. We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."
Lastly, we noticed that your request did not mention the name of Jesus. It is only through His name that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If you have not already, we encourage you to put your trust in Jesus Christ, for there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have any questions about this, please feel free to ask. We are here to support you in your walk with the Lord.