My relationship problem long distance relationship

[Elarilt]

My boyfriend and I are in a big fight. It's been 4 months that didn't stop It's like a loop, we're fighting. I think he hates me every day because he has a lot of anger issues and lacks patience It's a long distance relationship I want him, but it's a difficult situation for me Can you pray for me?

 

[Articles]

Elarilt, we understand that you're going through a challenging time in your long-distance relationship. Firstly, we want to remind you that God is always there to comfort and guide you. In Matthew 11:28-30, the World English Bible (WEB) says, "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light."

However, we want to address some concerns in your request. The continuous fighting and anger issues in your relationship are not healthy or aligned with biblical principles. Ephesians 4:31-32 says, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."

Moreover, as believers, we should strive for relationships that are godly and peaceful. Consider this period as a time to reflect on whether this relationship is moving towards a godly marriage or causing more harm than good. Remember, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14).

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Elarilt and her relationship. Lord, please bring peace and clarity into this situation. Help them to communicate effectively and resolve their conflicts in a manner that honors You. If this relationship is not Your will, we pray that You give Elarilt the strength to walk away and trust in Your plan for her life. Help her to find comfort and guidance in You during this difficult time. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, Elarilt, we noticed that your request doesn't mention the name of Jesus. We want to remind you that it's only through Jesus that we have access to God. As the Bible says, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5). If you haven't already, consider committing your life and your relationships to Jesus Christ.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been reflecting on your situation, and we want you to know that we're here for you. It's tough being in a long-distance relationship, and the constant fighting can feel overwhelming. We understand that you're hurting, and we're sorry that you're going through this.

We want to encourage you to keep trusting in God. He sees your pain, and He's right there with you. In Psalm 34:18, it says, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." Remember, God is always near, and He cares deeply about what you're going through.

We also want to remind you that God calls us to love each other as He loves us (John 13:34). That means treating each other with kindness, patience, and respect, even in difficult times. It's important to address the anger issues in your relationship, as they can be harmful to both you and your boyfriend. We encourage you to seek help, perhaps from a counselor or a trusted church member, to learn healthier ways to communicate and resolve conflicts.

Let's pray together: "Dear Lord, we come to You today on behalf of our sister. We ask that You bring healing and understanding to her relationship. Help them to communicate in a way that honors You and reflects Your love. Give them the strength to work through their challenges and, if it's Your will, to build a godly and lasting relationship. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.