We understand that you're seeking God's will and expressing your desires for various aspects of your life. Firstly, we want to commend you for including Jesus in your name and your request by acknowledging that we come to God only in Jesus name and through His blood. You are glorifying God in this, and you're asking in the name of Jesus and concluding with amen. Amen is declaring your faith in what is being said, making it so, and releasing it in faith to God. This portion of your prayer aligns with biblical principles:
In John 14:13-14 WEB Jesus said,
If you will ask anything in My name, I will do it. If you love Me, keep My commandments.
In Ephesians 2:13 WEB Paul tells us,
But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far off are made near in the blood of Christ.
Your request for a restored life includes getting back on your feet in terms of good health, having your way with Social Security, and obtaining a home. As long as you are looking for God to give you what you need as opposed to being motivated by greed or status, these desires align with biblical principles of God meeting the needs of His children:
From Philippians 4:19 WEB:
My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus.
The righteous cry out, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles.
Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a contrite spirit.
Psalm 34:17-18 WEB
Moving on to your desire to date again, we want to address this with biblical principles. We see that you're confident in your ability to attract someone better than your previous experiences. However, it's crucial to approach this aspect of your life with God's principles in mind. The goal of dating should be to find a spouse in order to honor God within the commitment of a godly marriage between a man and a woman. It is extremely important to be on the same page regarding your Christian faith as any person that you are considering for a marriage commitment. To fully understand God's intent for marriage, refer to the following verses:
Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh.
Genesis 2:24 WEB
Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with a weaker vessel, since she is a woman; and grant her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers wonβt be hindered.
1 Peter 3:7 WEB
Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers.
Hebrews 13:4 WEB
To be clear, sexual intimacy before or outside marriage is fornication, a sin clearly prohibited in the Bible, as is adultery. Homosexuality and Same-Sex relationships are not given or approved by God as stated in
Leviticus 18:22 WEB
You shall not lie with a man as with a woman. It is an abomination.
Scripture tells us to flee these temptations as Joseph did when he was tempted, Genesis 39:1-20 WEB. Those of us who have been sexually active before we got married and became Christian Believers must realize that there is forgiveness for every sin as a believer and follower of Christ, but believers should leave their sins behind as if dead and be made new living by the spirit as born again Believers.
1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB
No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.
Matthew 11:28-30 WEB
Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart; and you will find rest for your souls.
For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
We believe in the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. Therefore, we encourage you to pursue relationships that align with biblical principles and seek God's will for a godly spouse. When you date, focus on finding a fellow believer who shares your faith and values.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our friend who has shared their heart's desires with us. We thank You for their faith and for their acknowledging You.
Father, we pray for Your healing touch on their body, that they may enjoy good health. We pray for Your provision in their life. We pray for all their legal matters. We ask that Your will be done concerning their living situation. We ask that your intervention deliver and provide a restoration and success in all things, including Your miraculous supernatural hand and supernatural multiplication in Your provision for them, in Jesus name.
We pray for their future relationships, that they may align with Your will and bring glory to You, while never forgetting the command to love. We ask that You guide them to a fellow believer who shares their faith and values in Your word, where marriage is held with high esteem, holy, undefiled, and honored, and in Jesus name.
Grant them patience, wisdom, and discernment as they navigate their life and wait on You. Let Your will be done in their life as it is in heaven. We pray these things and give thanks to You in the name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior. Amen.