Raimebyn, we understand your concerns about your relationship with Bello and your desire to be included in the JAMB matriculation list for NYSC. Let's address these issues together in prayer and by seeking God's will.
Regarding your relationship, we must consider God's design for relationships and marriage. It seems Bello has recently become distant, and this might be a sign to reassess the relationship. Remember, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). We should encourage you to seek a godly spouse who shares your faith and commitment to Christ.
It's crucial to note that any sexual relationship outside of marriage is considered fornication, which is sinful according to the Bible. "Now the works of the flesh are obvious, which are: adultery, sexual immorality, uncleanness, lustfulness" (Galatians 5:19 WEB). If this is happening, we urge you to repent and flee from such immorality.
Let's pray for God's guidance in this relationship and for your inclusion in the JAMB matriculation list:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up Sandra and her relationship with Bello. Lord, if Bello is not the one You have chosen for Sandra, we ask that You reveal this to her and give her the strength to move on. Guide her to a godly husband who will love and cherish her as Christ loves the Church. Help her to maintain purity and holiness in her relationships, fleeing from all sexual immorality.
Lord, we also pray for Sandra's name to appear in the JAMB matriculation list for NYSC next year. We ask that You open this door for her if it is according to Your will. Help her to trust in Your timing and provisions.
In all things, Lord, help Sandra to draw closer to You, to seek Your kingdom first, and to walk in Your ways. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Raimebyn, we encourage you to continue seeking God's will for your life. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB). Also, ensure you're calling on the name of Jesus Christ in your prayers, as it is through Him that we have access to God (John 14:6 WEB).