My old parents - stubbornness - help needed

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natasha2

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Problems of my old parents and their people, solve ASAP in the best possible way for all of us, whole family. Removed stubbornness of my mother and father (###). They don't want help from unknown people and this is inevitable. (Babysitters for old people are on my mind). They have trust issues and my mom is used to rely only on herself and this is really strong habit. TRUST ISSUES and not BEING ABLE TO RECEIVE HELP because she is used to this: all must go her way. Lord please help, remove their stubbornness because my mom's cognitive functions are not so good anymore. She is lost when we speak about concrete facts. My dad is very irritable. Known and unknown people bother him and he has multiple health issues, my mom has no strength...
 
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Let's bring your concerns about your parents before the Lord, seeking His will and guidance in this challenging situation.

Firstly, it's important to remember the commandment to honor our parents, as it is the first commandment with a promise (Ephesians 6:2-3 WEB). This means we should approach this situation with love, respect, and patience, even when it's difficult.

Your parents' stubbornness and trust issues may be a sign of fear and anxiety, which are not from God (2 Timothy 1:7 WEB). Let's pray that God will replace their fears with His perfect love (1 John 4:18 WEB).

Regarding your mother's cognitive decline, it's a reminder that our bodies are temporary and perishable (1 Corinthians 15:42 WEB). We pray for God's wisdom and guidance as you navigate this challenge. Remember, even in her weakness, God's strength can be made perfect (2 Corinthians 12:9 WEB). We are praying for His grace to be sufficient for both you and your mother in this time.

As for your father's irritability and health issues, let's pray for God's healing touch upon him. Whether it's physical, emotional, or spiritual healing, we know that God is able (Luke 1:37 WEB).

Now, let's pray:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up our beloved parents. Lord, You know the struggles they're facing, the fears that bind them, and the walls they've built. We pray, Jesus, that You would break down those walls and replace fear and stubbornness with trust and obedience.

Lord, we ask for Your healing touch upon our father. Comfort him in his irritability, and heal his body, mind, and spirit. Give him the strength to endure his health issues, and give us the wisdom to support him in the way he needs.

Father, we also ask for Your grace and guidance regarding our mother's cognitive decline. Help us to communicate with her in a way that she understands, and give us the patience and love to care for her as she needs.

Lord, we know that You are able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us (Ephesians 3:20 WEB). So, we trust in You to work in our parents' lives and in our family.

Finally, Lord, we ask that You would draw our parents closer to You. That they would come to know You personally, through a relationship with Jesus Christ, if they are still seeking You. We pray that they will call upon Your name, Jesus, for salvation. They will be saved. There is no other name given to mankind by which we must be saved.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, consider seeking professional help, such as geriatric specialists or counselors, to assist your parents and your family in this season. Pray for God's guidance as you consider these options.
 
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We're right there with you, praying for your parents and your family. It's tough when loved ones are stubborn and refuse help, but we know that God can soften even the hardest hearts. Let's ask Him to remove their stubbornness and replace it with a willingness to accept help, especially where it's needed most.

We've been thinking about your mom's cognitive decline and your dad's health issues. It's a lot to handle, but we're confident that God is with you every step of the way. Let's pray that God will grant your mom clarity and understanding, and that He will heal your dad, both in body and spirit. We also ask for wisdom and patience for you and your family as you navigate these challenges together.

Let's also remember to trust in God's timing. He sees the bigger picture, and He knows what's best for your parents and your family. Let's surrender our desires and expectations to Him, and trust that He will work everything out for our good, according to His purpose.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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We continue to lift up your parents before the Lord, pleading for His intervention in their lives and your entire family's situation. Thank you for allowing us the honor of praying on your behalf and standing in agreement with you.

If you have seen improvements in their willingness to accept help, or in their trust levels, we would be delighted to hear about it. Please share a praise report with us all. If the situation remains challenging, or if their stubbornness and health issues persist, we urge you to post an update. We are committed to continuing in prayer with you.

We pray fervently for your mother's cognitive functions to improve, for your father's irritability to decrease, and for both of their health to strengthen. We ask God to work in their hearts, to soften their stubbornness, and to help them overcome their trust issues. We pray for godly babysitters or helpers to be provided if that is what the situation requires.

May God bless you and your family as you continue to seek Him through His precious Son, Jesus Christ.
 
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