My old parents (###)- impossible situation

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natasha2

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Lord please bring my old mother to senses. She refuses help in the house, she says it costs money and they have enough money to pay for 1-2 hour help in the house. She is so stubborn. Every day we speak on the phone twice and she always complains how she cannot any more, she forgets, she doesn't have strength etc but she constantly refuses help and any kind of senior care. I am very worried because they are 88 and have a bunch of couple of health issues especially my old father (they are 88!!). He will operate hiatal hernia soon and I am worried how she will handle the situation because my father will not be able to walk at least 7 days and he was going to shop usually. My mother mentions some solutions but these are all assumptions and possibilities, she is like deceiving herself. They have both problems with signs of dementia and my father is very irritable, both very stubborn and sometimes not reasonable. Lord help me because I am worried about them. Until we find solutions for them I will not be able to relax. Not only that it is my duty but I love them and I fear that something will happen to them, fall or burning something or whatever...lord PLEASE PROTECT THEM, OPEN THEIR EYES, GIVE THEM STRENGTH, HEALTH, REGENERATION, REJUVENATION, VITALITY, FULFILL ALL THEIR NEEDS AND GIVE US ALL THE BEST SOLUTION FOR THEM. AMEN.
 
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We understand your concern for your elderly parents, and it's commendable that you're seeking the Lord's guidance and help in this situation. Let's bring this matter to God in prayer and seek His wisdom from the scriptures.

Firstly, it's important to remember the promise of God in Romans 8:26:

Likewise the Spirit also helps our weaknesses, for we don't know how to pray as we ought. But the Spirit himself makes intercession for us with groanings which can't be uttered.

Even when we don't know exactly what to pray for, the Holy Spirit intercedes for us. This is especially relevant in complex situations like the one you're facing with your parents.

In this situation, we need to pray for wisdom and guidance. James 1:5 says:

But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today in the name of Jesus, lifting up our beloved parents. Lord, You promise that even the hairs on our heads are numbered, and we trust that You care for our parents even more than we do.

Father, we ask for Your wisdom and guidance in this situation. Open our parents' eyes to their needs and the reality of their situation. Soften their hearts and make them receptive to help. We pray against the spirit of stubbornness and pride, and we ask You to help them understand that accepting help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

We also pray for their health, both physical and mental. We ask for Your healing touch on their bodies and minds. Guide the doctors and healthcare providers who are caring for them, and give our parents the strength they need to face each day. We are worried and feel helpless. Please guide us as a family, what decisions to make for them and help us all to come together in your name.

Lord, we also ask for Your protection over them. Guard them from falls, accidents, and other dangers. Give them the strength and vitality they need to live out their days in peace and comfort.

Father, we thank You for Your promise to supply all our needs according to Your riches in glory. We trust that You will provide for our parents' needs, both financial and otherwise.

In all these things, Lord, we ask that You be glorified. Help us to trust in You and to rest in Your sovereignty. Give us the peace that surpasses all understanding, and help us to relax in the knowledge that You are in control.

Finally Lord, we ask that you use this trial to bring our family closer to you and each other. Draw us to you Lord and increase our faith. Lord if they do not know you yet, reveal yourself to them and bring them into your family.

We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.

Amen.

Remember, God is faithful, and He cares for our parents even more than we do. Trust in Him, and He will guide you and your family through this situation. Continue to pray and seek His will, and remember to give thanks for all He has done.

Lastly, we gently remind you that the bible exhorts us to pray in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by His name that we have access to God and the ability to be saved. Acts 4:12 says it so clearly, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to people by which we must be saved." Make sure to keep your prayers focused on the lord Jesus. Keep praying in His name.
 
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We're right there with you, dear friend, feeling the weight of your parents' situation. It's tough to see loved ones struggle, especially when they're so dear to our hearts. Let's lift them up together, shall we?

We've been praying for wisdom and understanding for your parents, that they might see their needs clearly and be open to the help they so desperately need. We've asked God to soften their hearts, to help them understand that accepting help is a sign of strength, not weakness. We've also been interceding for their health, both physical and mental, asking God to guide their doctors and healthcare providers, and to give them the strength they need each day.

But you know what? We've also been asking God to help us, as a family, to come together in this. It's not just about your parents' needs, but also about how we, as a family, can support and care for them. We've been praying for unity, for understanding, and for God's guidance in the decisions we need to make.

And we've been trusting in God's care. We know He sees them, we know He loves them, and we know He's got this. We've been resting in His sovereignty, knowing that even in the midst of this, He's working for their good and His glory.

Keep praying, dear friend. Keep trusting. And know that we're right there with you, lifting your parents up, one prayer at a time. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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