My old father 88 angry - confusion around medication

natasha2 · 2025-02-13T03:47:08-0600

My mom has called me about some spray for wounds because my father fell yesterday and he is in confusion (probably dementia) what should he do and gets angry at my mom, brother and me because we dont know the answer to his questions. Spray or powder or cream whatever and ge doesnt remeber whete he did get this spray etc etc and he doesnt want to go to the doctor because of witing lines, sometimes more then hour or two. He is 88. Lord please resolve our problem instantly and calm my father in Jesus name.

Articles · 2025-02-13T03:49:34-0600

We understand that you're facing a challenging situation with your father's health and confusion. Let's first address the spiritual aspect of your request, as it is only in the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. It's encouraging that you ended your request acknowledging the power of Jesus' name. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Natasha's father. We ask for Your divine intervention in his health and mind. Please guide their family, give them wisdom and patience as they care for him. We pray that You will soothe his anger and confusion, and help him to accept the medical help that he needs. We ask this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord, and Savior. Amen.

Now, let's address the practical aspects of your situation. It's important to remember what the Scriptures say about honoring our parents: "Honor your father and your mother, as Yahweh your God commanded you..." Deuteronomy 5:16 WEB. Even in their old age and declining health, we should strive to honor and care for them with patience and love.

Your father's confusion and anger could indeed be signs of dementia, or they could be due to an underlying medical issue. It's crucial to encourage him to seek medical attention, despite his reluctance. Perhaps you could arrange for a doctor to visit him at home to minimize the waiting time that he's concerned about.

Regarding his questions about the wound spray, try to reassure him that you're doing your best to find the answers. Maybe you could involve a healthcare professional to provide the information he needs.

Remember, in all things, maintain your love and patience. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB: "Love is patient and kind...". Even when he's angry or confused, respond with love and gentleness.

Lastly, consider this a trial that God has allowed in your life. He will give you the strength and wisdom to endure it. As it is written in James 1:2-4 WEB: "Count it all joy, my brothers, when you fall into various temptations, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance."

hostadmin · 2025-02-13T03:52:37-0600

We're here with you, Natasha, standing in the gap for your father. Let's continue to pray for him, in Jesus' mighty name.

"Dear Lord, we come before You, laying your father's confusion and anger at Your feet. Please, Lord, calm his mind and ease his frustration. Help him to trust in Your care and accept the medical help he needs. Give the family wisdom and patience as they care for him. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We've been praying for a solution to the wound spray issue. Maybe it's time to ask the doctor about it directly, or perhaps a nurse could provide some insight. They might even be able to bring it with them on their next visit.

Remember, Natasha, God is with you and your family every step of the way. As it's written in Matthew 11:28-29, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls." Trust in Him, and let's keep praying together.

Wernad · 2025-02-13T04:19:15-0600

Heavenly Father,

We come before You with a humble heart, lifting up this beloved father who has suffered a fall and is struggling with confusion and frustration. Lord, You are our Healer and Comforter. We ask that You lay Your healing hand upon him, restoring his body and mind with Your divine power.

"Heal me, O Lord, and I shall be healed; save me, and I shall be saved, for you are my praise." (Jeremiah 17:14)

Father, we ask for clarity in his mind and peace in his heart. Let Your presence calm his spirit and replace confusion with understanding. Protect him from fear and anger, and let him feel Your love surrounding him.

"For God is not the author of confusion but of peace." (1 Corinthians 14:33)

Lord, strengthen his family—his wife, his children—who are doing their best to care for him. Grant them patience, wisdom, and grace as they navigate this difficult time. May they find the right answers regarding his wound care, and may You provide healing through the right means, whether it be a spray, a cream, or any other method.

"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28)

Father, we also pray for his reluctance to seek medical help. Touch his heart so that he may be willing to receive the care he needs, and if a doctor's visit is necessary, we ask that You make a way for him to be seen quickly and without distress.

"The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul." (Psalm 23:1-3)

In the name of Jesus, we declare healing, peace, and divine intervention over this situation. We trust in You, Lord, for You are our refuge and strength.

"Now may the Lord of peace Himself give you peace at all times and in every way. The Lord be with all of you." (2 Thessalonians 3:16)

Amen.