My ### of my life broke up with me and I can feel she is the one

Daniel Andersen · Dec 12, 2024

My girlfriend of 7 months broke up with me a few days ago. I thought we were doing good, but I guess when I threw her into a lions den group chat and gave her PTSD, she was struggling the last 5 months and never told me. I see this girl ### in my future back then and even now, even though she despises me and hates me with a passion and wants nothing to do with me. As she lost trust in me and didn't think we could work it out... I've been praying to hopefully that one day she heals from what I did and realizes that I am the one for her and no one else. I'm 23 almost 24 and she is also 23 almost 24. It's a long-distance relationship; she lives in the Philippines and me in the states, but she is the most beautiful amazing woman I've ever met, and I had thought I knew she was the one for me from the start. Granted, I messed up things a lot in the early stage, but in the end, or it all, I STILL believe in ### and me dating down the road again. Please help me pray for this no matter how long it takes. I believe in God and His will, and I believe this will happen.

Articles · Dec 12, 2024

We understand that you're going through a difficult time, ###, and we want to address your situation with care and biblical principles. First, we want to remind you that God's will is always the best for us, and He works everything together for the good of those who love Him and are called according to His purpose.

It's important to note that the Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality, and that includes intimacy outside of marriage. Since you did mention specifically what you did to cause the situation with PTSD, we want to remind everyone that God calls us to purity and holiness. 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB says, Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.

Regarding your relationship, it's clear that you care deeply for ###. However, it's crucial to remember that God's design for relationships is that they should be moving toward marriage. The Bible teaches us to be equally yoked with fellow believers. So it is important to know her faith, 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB says, Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?

It's also important to respect ###'s feelings and decisions, but ultimately place your future in God's hands. We encourage you to stay away from heartache by not calling her your girlfriend and imagining a long-distance marriage. Proverbs 4:23 WEB says, Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life. Instead, focus on your personal growth and becoming the best version of yourself in Christ.

The name of Jesus Christ was mentioned nowhere in the text of the prayer request. It is by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Some of the first things we should do as Christians is make sure that Jesus is our focus. Always remember the basic salvation message. If you declare with your mouth, Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. It is by his name under heaven given to men by which we can be save.
Acts 4:12 WEB says, There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!
Romans 10:9 WEB, because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today in the name of Jesus, lifting up ### and ###. Lord, we ask for Your healing touch on ###'s heart and mind. We pray that You would help her overcome any PTSD symptoms and find peace in You. We also pray for ###, that You would guide him, give him strength, and help him to grow in You during this time. We ask that Your will be done in their lives and that You would reveal Your divine purpose, in Jesus name.

We ask this all in Jesus precious name amen.

hostadmin · Dec 12, 2024

We've been thinking about you and ###, and we're here for you. We know it's tough when someone you care about is hurting, especially when you feel responsible. But remember, God is always there, ready to help and heal. We're praying for ###, asking God to comfort her, help her heal, and guide her. And for you, we're asking God to give you strength, wisdom, and patience. We believe in the power of love, forgiveness, and restoration. Keep trusting in God, and let's continue to pray together, seeking His will for both of you. In Jesus' name, we pray.

Felic · Dec 12, 2024

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

The Encourager · Dec 12, 2024

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Cinu · Dec 13, 2024

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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hostadmin · Dec 18, 2024

We are truly grateful that you have given us the privilege to pray alongside you during this challenging time. It is an honor to stand in agreement with you in prayer, especially concerning your relationship with Eli.

If you have seen any improvements or answers to your prayers, we would be delighted to hear a praise report from you. Your testimony could be a great encouragement to others who are also seeking God's intervention in their lives.

However, if your request does not seem to have been answered yet, we want to assure you that we are here to continue praying with you. Please consider posting an update or a new request, so we can persist in prayer together.

In the meantime, we are praying that God will comfort your heart and provide you with His peace that surpasses all understanding. We are also praying for Eli, that God would heal her heart, ease her pain, and guide her path. We ask God to reveal His will for both of your lives and to work in your relationship according to His divine plan.

May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him and trust in His unfailing love. We are praying that His will be done in your life and that you will see His goodness and faithfulness in the days to come. Praying that you we find guidance, hope and trust in His son, Jesus Christ.