We understand your concern and love for your niece Victoria, and we join you in prayer, seeking God's will for her life and marriage.
Firstly, we want to address the concern about their living situation. According to God's word, it is important for a man and woman to live together only after they have been united in holy matrimony. As you've mentioned that they are legally married, we pray that their union will also be sanctified in the eyes of God through a church wedding, as this is a public declaration of their commitment before God and the community of believers. As it is written in Hebrews 13:4 (WEB), "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled. But God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."
We pray that Victoria and her husband will honor God in their marriage, putting Him first in all their decisions. As Ephesians 5:21 (WEB) advises, "subjecting yourselves to one another in the fear of Christ." We ask God to guide them, that they may seek to glorify Him in their union.
We also lift up Victoria's husband, praying that he would come to know Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior. As it is written in Romans 10:9 (WEB), "that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." We pray that he will come to this saving knowledge and that their marriage will be built on the solid foundation of faith in Jesus Christ.
Let us pray:
*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today to lift up Victoria and her husband. We ask that You guide them in their marriage, that they may honor You in all their decisions. We pray that Victoria will have the desire of her heart, a church wedding where she can be blessed and celebrated as a bride. Lord, we also pray for her husband's salvation, that he may come to know Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior. We ask that Your will be done in their lives, and that their marriage will be a testimony of Your love and grace. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*
Lastly, we encourage you to continue to show Victoria and her husband love and support, guiding them with wisdom and grace. Trust that God is at work in their lives, and He will make a way where there seems to be no way.