My mother

[Anonymous]

My mother has gone down a dark road where all she does is bring pain into our home..she loves to hurt us ans hinder us in any way she can....she started to abuse us and try to cause us harm....by us I mean me and my baby...her sisters support her in her wickedness.... she wants me to not have hygiene, to work for HER so she can fo to the casino, etc..if she is gonna go visit her sisters she leaves us without food or water at times...no money etx ...she expects me to go ask for help to the abuser she used to date and keeps opening the doors to which also brings abuse ...I keep fighting to protect my baby and will keep on doing it but I am tired and my mother doesn't care about anyone but herself and has communicated so...she said she doesn't care about me..my feelings, thoughts, boundaries etc that they are all stupid... worst part...no one believes me about my mother's mistreatment because in front of others she has a different face....one that I wish was real...but it aint... please May this stop...

 

[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about the situation you are facing with your mother. It is important to remember that God sees all things and He cares for you and your baby. You are not alone in your suffering, and God is a merciful God who hears your cries for help.

Firstly, we must address that the behavior you are describing from your mother is not aligned with biblical principles. The Bible commands children to honor their parents, but it also instructs parents to not provoke their children to wrath. Your mother's actions are not reflecting the love and care that God instructs parents to have for their children.

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. "Honor your father and mother," which is the first commandment with promise, "that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth." Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord - Ephesians 6:1-4 WEB

The Bible also speaks against abuse and harm. It should be noted that leaving with no food or water, encouraging poor hygiene, expectations to ask for help from an abuser and other instances mentioned, causing harm and abuse, is not right or biblical.

But whoever has the world's goods, and sees his brother in need, and shuts up his compassion from him, how, does God's love remain in him? My little children, let's not love in word only, neither with the tongue only, but in deed and truth. - 1 John 3:17-18 WEB

In addition, the Bible warns against selfishness and mistreatment of others. Your mother's disregard for your feelings, thoughts, and boundaries is not aligned with God's will.

Let nothing be done through strife or conceit, but in lowliness of mind, each esteem others better than themselves. Let each of you look not only to your own interests but also to the interests of others. - Philippians 2:3-4 WEB

Finally, it is clear that you are trying to do what is best for your baby and this should be commended and encouraged.

Anonymous, we stand with you in prayer.

Dear God,

We come before You today, lifting up this dear sister who is suffering at the hands of her own mother. Lord, You see the pain, the abuse, and the harm that is being caused. We pray for Your divine intervention in this situation. Protect this sister and her baby from further harm. Provide for their needs, Lord, as You promise in Your Word.

"Honor the Lord with your substance, with the first fruits of all your increase: so shall your barns be filled with plenty, and your vats shall overflow with new wine" Proverbs 3:9-10 WEB

We also pray for the mother. Lord, change her heart, soften it, and help her to see the error of her ways. Bring conviction upon her, Lord, and draw her to You.

Examine me, God, and know my heart. Try me, and know my thoughts. See if there is any wicked way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way. - Psalm 139:23-24 WEB

We ask for healing for this sister also. We pray that forgiveness and love, even towards difficult family members, will be put into her heart so that the cycle of abuse and will stop and healing will abound. Help her to be forgiving, but protect her from her mother's abuse moving forward.

We pray for wisdom and discernment for this sister, Lord. Guide her on the path that You would have her take. Give her the strength and courage to make the changes that are necessary for her and her baby's well-being and protection, through Jesus Christ.

We also pray for salvation for both this sister and her mother. If either do not personally know Jesus Christ as their savior and Lord we pray that this hurting will be the start of both coming to know Jesus Christ, the only begotten son of God, so that both can be saved. This is the most important part of our prayer. If either of you would like to have everlasting peace, salvation, be saved, and to know that when you die you will be in heaven for eternity you must believe in Jesus Christ. This is only possible by accepting Jesus Christ as your savior and confessing and repenting of your sins. Jesus Christ died for our sins and was resurrected proving his power over death so that we can be saved by believing in him. Jesus Christ is God and has all of the power and authority. The bible says in Acts 4:12 WEB Neither is there salvation in any other, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved. Jesus Christ is God, man, and the only savior and he has all the power for those who are saved by him.

"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have everlasting life" John 3:16 WEB

"if you will confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and believe in your heart that God has raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart man believes resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made resulting in salvation. - Romans 10:9-10 WEB

If you declare with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. 10 For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved. - Romans 10:9-10 NIV

Bring this situation to the light, Lord. Expose the truth and bring an end to the deception.

Lastly, do not be afraid to find real help. Seek professionals, contact the police or emergency contacts, and get yourself and baby to safety. Your god ordained choice right now is to save your baby and yourself from physical danger. Seek refuge in the church by searching for a local church that can help you get to safety. Seeking church refuges often lead to other means of securities. We believe you can be safe with the help of others and believe you can do what is right by removing yourself and your baby from the harmful situation. Also, often church leaders can provide legal council to help you get legal protections from these harmful situations. If things just do not seem right or unsafe in one church then just ask for help to go to another church close to the area.

Do not be a victim to difficult or impossible cases. It is OK for you to take basic actions that will help you and your baby. It is OK and encouraged to do the things above. As Christians we never have to be victims.

Let us draw near with a true heart in fullness of faith, having our hearts sprinkled from an evil conscience: and having our body washed with pure water, let us hold fast the confession of our hope that it wavers not; for he is faithful that promised. - Hebrews 10:22-23 WEB

Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths. Be not wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord, and turn away from evil. - Proverbs 3:5-7 ESV

 

[hostadmin]

Dear sister, we're so sorry to hear about the pain you're going through with your mother. It's heartbreaking to see a parent causing harm to their own child. Please know that you're not alone, and we're here for you.

We want to remind you of God's love for you and your baby. He sees every tear, every struggle, and He is always with you. In Matthew 11:28-29, Jesus says, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls."

We also want to encourage you to trust your instincts. It's okay to seek help and protection for yourself and your baby. In Exodus 22:2, God commands, "If a thief is caught breaking in at night and is struck a fatal blow, the defender is not guilty of bloodshed." This shows that God understands the need for self-defense and protection.

Please, reach out to local authorities, trusted friends, or a domestic violence hotline. They can provide guidance and support. Also, consider seeking refuge in a local church. Many churches have programs to help in such situations.

Remember, it's not your fault. You're doing the best you can, and we admire your strength and resilience. Keep fighting, keep protecting your baby, and know that you're loved and supported.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to you today on behalf of our sister. Lord, we ask for your protection over her and her baby. Shield them from harm, guide their steps, and give them strength. Lord, soften the heart of their mother, bring conviction, and help her to see the error of her ways. Help our sister to forgive, but also to protect herself and her baby moving forward. Give her wisdom, courage, and discernment. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Tralynn]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[EnricoLange]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you and your mother up in prayer, asking God to intervene and bring peace and healing to your home. We are honored that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in this time of need. If you have seen improvements in your situation, we would be encouraged to hear about it, so please share a praise report with us all. If the circumstances seem unchanged or even more challenging, do not hesitate to post your request again. Let us continue to intercede for you and your family.

We are praying specifically for your mother's heart to be softened and for her to seek help and healing. We are also asking God to protect you and your baby, providing you with the strength and resources you need. We pray that the truth of your experiences would be revealed and that you would find validation and support from others.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We are praying for your faith to be strengthened and for you to find hope and comfort in God's unfailing love. We are asking all these things in Jesus Name.