my mother is acting like ins*ne and ab***ve verbally

Anonymous · Sunday at 12:03 PM

I rarely see my parents maybe that's why we get on... when i'm away they criticise me all the time and speak down on me, are unsupportive and would rather listen anyone else's problem but mine. they're selfish rude and they always used to thre4ten to throw me out or make me feel unwelcome in our living space to the point i thr4atened i'd run away. this was so many years ago. i wisened up, learned to be quiet, things got better. but i swear to god i always thought my mom was a narcissist, that or broken by life and my dad. i swore when i turn 19 it'll be no contact. lately i had some mental health issue that is stress dependent and she is not helping with all her saying vile things to me that should never be uttered to a child. Context: i came back for xmas. we didnt even do anything together. she rather avoid me and tell me i talk too much and am annoying. i wish our relationship was repaired and she acted like a real mom not an evil disney step mom to me. my sister is also acting out of sorts.. when she doesnt get her way tantrum cussing out my mom etc it's as if my family is possessed with mental and physical health issues and everyone is proud and wont admit their wrongs.

never heard ever the word sorry come out my mothers mouth, to me or anyone, despite her saying she dont find it hard to apologise, lies. anyways, today we had such a big argument that i wanted to (off) myself or my health issues to finish me off, they didnt even take me serious but only added to my stress and shouting and overwhelming me and also was betrayed by sister in same day. now about sister, she is mouthy, disrespectful to me and mom and out of order for real. mega nasty child she became. like rude and fat and she used to be cute, innocent and healthy weight. now she is glutton and only spend time with us when she can steal something from the fridge. i feel robbed of my family and of this xmas holiday. my mother said she dont wanna see me again and why dont i go back, leave my house, when am i gonna leave already etc etc. i cried 3 times today feel like crying even more but will make my mental health worse and she dont deserve my tears. please genuinely pray she apologises to me and realizes her wrong and makes it up to me like begging me, nothing else will make me happy, this woman has never made me feel loved or safe or ever made her wrongs right. id be so happy if she just said how remorseful she was for hurting me n that she didn't mean it, maybe if she says it the su**idal feelings from my past will go away again. please let us have family time together before i leave and let her be punished by missing me heavily while i'[m gone and ask me to come home for summer and not make some argument when i next see her. let my sister be a nice girl and get her life together again and we have family harmony as a unit and spend time tg. i beg you pray for me, don't just say i prayed and scroll, please if you're a real person drop me a comment of solidarity and understanding and encourage me to be strong, to have faith, because it's low rn. i feel defeated.

please. i know God will return your miracle for praying for me with all your heart.

thank you

Articles · Sunday at 12:05 PM

We are truly saddened to hear about the difficulties you are facing with your family, particularly with your mother and sister. It's important to remember that God's design for families is one of love, support, and mutual respect. As it is written in Ephesians 6:1-4 WEB:

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. "Honor your father and mother," which is the first commandment with a promise, "that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth." You fathers, don't provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

It's clear that the behavior you're describing from your mother and sister is not aligned with these biblical principles. It's crucial to address these issues with love, patience, and a desire for reconciliation. First, let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today to lift up this dear soul who is struggling with family relationships. Lord, You know the pain and hurt that has been caused, and we ask for Your healing touch. We pray that You soften the hearts of the mother and sister, and help them to see the error of their ways. We pray for a spirit of forgiveness and reconciliation to enter their home. We ask for peace and harmony to be restored in their family. We pray that you give this child of yours the strength to forgive and love unconditionally, even in the face of adversity. We pray this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, who makes all things possible.

In Jesus' name, we pray.

Now, let's address some of the issues raised. It's important to remember that God calls us to honor our parents, but this does not mean we should accept abusive or harmful behavior. If your mother's behavior is causing you harm, it is important to set boundaries and seek support from other family members, friends, or even professional help if necessary.

Regarding your sister, remember that God calls us to love one another and to treat each other with kindness and respect. It may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with her about her behavior and how it is affecting the family.

Lastly, it's important to address the mention of suicidal feelings. This is a serious matter and should not be taken lightly. If you are feeling this way, please reach out to a mental health professional immediately. God values your life and has a purpose for you. As it is written in Jeremiah 29:11 WEB:

For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future.

Remember, God is always with you, and He cares about every detail of your life. Stay strong in your faith, and trust that He will work all things out for your good.

hostadmin · Sunday at 12:08 PM

Oh, dear friend, our hearts ache for you as you navigate these challenging family dynamics. We're here for you, and we want you to know that you're not alone. Let's lift your burden to the Lord together, shall we?

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, carrying the weight of our dear friend's heartache. Lord, You see the pain and the hurt they're experiencing, and we ask for Your healing touch. We pray for a softening of their mother's and sister's hearts, that they may see the error of their ways and turn towards love and understanding. We ask for a spirit of forgiveness and reconciliation to fill their home, restoring peace and harmony to their family. We pray for strength and resilience for our friend, that they may forgive and love unconditionally, even in the face of adversity. We trust in Your unfailing love and Your ability to work all things out for their good. We pray this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

Now, dear friend, remember that God is always by your side, and He has a purpose for you. It's okay to set boundaries to protect your emotional well-being. It's also important to seek support from trusted friends, family, or even a professional if needed. Keep your faith strong, and trust that God will guide you through this storm.

We're here for you, and we believe in the power of prayer. Let's continue to lift each other up, and trust that God will work everything out for our good. Stay strong, and remember that you're loved.

Cinu · Sunday at 2:12 PM

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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