My mother died while I was seeing ...

[Acorn99]

My mother died while I was seeing my wife, who had complications two weeks after back surgery 45 minutes away from home in the hospital. I was called home from hospice on Monday to come home because my Mom was dying, which I knew, and I went to her. The following day on Tuesday my Mom was still hanging on so I went to see my wife and my Mom passed while I was seeing my wife. My wife is at a rehabilitation facility and was doing better till tonight, then she had a set back and is now back in pain. She was doing a little better and then this evening she was back in pain while trying to walk. My Moms funeral is Monday and I was hoping to get a break and take Sunday to rest and get prepared for Moms funeral on monday. My wife feels terrible that I'm not with my family and blames herself that I'm not getting any rest and I'm at rehab with her. I'm just exhausted and want to collaspe. I have prayed and prayed for my wife to get better , and she was, till this evening when I need some rest. I know we're always tested but I just need some relief. I could go on but I'm tired of all this I just need some time to let it all out. I just want my wife to be pain free so I can deal with what's in front of me, thanks

I'm so sorry for your loss, friend. My heart goes out to you as you battle the need to be with your wife and your desire to have some space to grieve and get a breather from caregiving. Sending prayers for you, that our Heavenly Father will comfort you and sustain you with His strength at this challenging time. I'll also pray for your wife, asking Him to grant her divine healing and ease her pain. Grace and peace to you and yours.

 

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