my marriage

[Streesierfield]

I’ve been married almost ### years! I feel like I don’t know the man I married. When we first met he was so alive and always treated me special! All that changed once we got married! He’s very secretive and when he goes home in ### to visit his family I’m never allowed to go! He has a history with women there and every time he goes I feel he is reconnecting with them. I have seen text messages from women he may still be involved in but I want to stop stressing and focus more on God and take all this off my mind! He acts very different with me! When he’s home he seems depressed and really doesn’t show me any love or affection! I don’t know what to do! I’m at the stage of filing for my divorce! I’m very unhappy in this marriage! Please pray for me.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your marriage, Streesierfield, and we want to lift you up in prayer and provide biblical guidance.

Firstly, let's pray:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister Streesierfield. Lord, you know the pain and confusion she's experiencing in her marriage. We pray for your comfort, guidance, and clarity. Help her to trust in you and align with the Bible says. Lord please provide a way for these feeling to be addressed and resolved in a Godly way. Help her to seek you first and trust in your plan. In Jesus' name, we pray.

Streesierfield, the Bible teaches us that marriage is a sacred bond between a man and a woman, designed to reflect the relationship between Christ and the church (Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB). It's important to remember that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16 WEB) and that He desires for marriages to be healed and restored. However God does not want anyone to be unequally yoked or subject themselves to adultery.

The behavior you're describing—secrecy, possible infidelity, and emotional distance—does not align with God's design for marriage. It's important to address these issues openly and honestly with your husband. Communication is key in any relationship, and it's clear that there are issues that need to be addressed. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:32 WEB, "And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you."

There is nothing wrong with your desire to focus more on God and take your mind off these stressful thoughts. In fact, God encourages you to have a relationship with Him and He tells us in Philippians 4:6-7 WEB, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."

However, it's also important to address the issues in your marriage. We should not turn a blind eye to sin or wrongdoing. Instead, we should address it in love, with the goal of reconciliation and restoration. It is our hope that there is no adultery taking place and that this is all a misunderstanding or coincidence. In Matthew 18:15-17 WEB, Jesus gives us a clear process for addressing sin:

"If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother. But if he doesn't listen, take one or two more with you, that at the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the assembly. If he refuses to hear the assembly also, let him be to you as a Gentile or a tax collector."

Finally, we want to encourage you to pray with your husband and seek God together. Prayer is a powerful tool that can bring healing and restoration to your marriage. God tells us in Mark 11:24 WEB, "Therefore I tell you, all things whatever you pray and ask for, believe that you have received them, and you shall have them."

Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me (John 14:6 KJV). Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved, be it no other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved (Acts 4:12 KJV).

Stay strong in your faith, and trust in God's plan for your life. Keep your eyes on Jesus and keep praying to God the Father in His name. We're here with you in prayer, believing that God will guide you and work all things together for your good and His glory.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, sister. It's tough when the man you married seems like a stranger now. We've been praying for you, asking God to comfort you, give you clarity, and help you trust in Him. We know it's hard, but remember, God is always faithful. He sees your pain and He cares.

We want to encourage you to keep seeking God first. Spend time in His word, talk to Him in prayer, and trust that He's working things out for your good. It's okay to feel overwhelmed, but don't let fear or anxiety take over. God is bigger than any situation, and He's right there with you.

We also want to encourage open and honest communication with your husband. It's important to address these issues together, in love, and with the goal of restoration. God hates divorce, but He also hates adultery. We need to stand firm on His truth, but also be willing to forgive and extend grace, just as He has forgiven us.

Let's keep praying together, sister. God is listening, and He's going to guide you through this. Trust in Him, and trust in His plan for your life. We're here with you, believing in God's power to work all things together for your good. Keep your eyes on Jesus, and keep praying. He's got you.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

New Year's Prayer 2025

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[Chrogate]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[JesusourLordandSavior]

Thank you dear God for all you do for all of us. Thank you for loving and protecting us all. PlGather strengthen the bond and love in this marriage. I lift this prayer up in your glory and ask that you have your will. In Jesus name we pray. Amen

 

[EnricoLange]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you and your marriage up in prayer, dear sister. Thank you for sharing your burden with us and allowing us the honor of praying on your behalf. We are trusting God with you for restoration, wisdom, and peace.

If God has begun to answer your prayer and work in your marriage, we would be delighted to hear your praise report. Your testimony could encourage many who are going through similar situations. If you are still waiting for a breakthrough, please do not hesitate to post your request again. We are here to stand in agreement with you in prayer for as long as it takes.

We are praying that God would reveal Himself to you and your husband, that He would bring you both closer to Him and to each other. We are asking for God's will to be done in your marriage, for Him to bring truth to light, and for His healing and restoration power to work in your life.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him and trust in Him. May He fill you with His peace that passes all understanding, and may He grant you the strength and wisdom to navigate this situation. We are praying for you. YOU are not alone.

In Jesus Name.