We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, Druymere. God's heart is for reconciliation and redemption, and we believe that He can heal and restore your marriage as you both draw near to Him.
Firstly, it's crucial to understand that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. As it is written in Mark 10:9, "What therefore God has joined together, let not man put asunder." Divorce is not God's will, except in cases of adultery or if the unbelieving spouse wants to leave as per 1 Corinthians 7:15, "Yet if the unbeliever departs, let there be separation. The brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us in peace."
We commend you for your repentance, as it's the first step towards healing. Remember the promise in 1 John 1:9, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." Now, it's important to walk in that repentance and make amends towards your wife as guided by the Holy Spirit.
However, it's also important to acknowledge that your wife has feelings and pain that need to be addressed. Pray for her healing and that God softens her heart towards you and the marriage. Remember, you can't change her heart, but God can.
Let's pray together:
"Father, we come before You, lifting up Druymere and his wife. We thank You for their marriage and the plans You have for them. Lord, we ask for Your healing hand to touch their marriage, that You would draw them to Yourself and to each other. Soften her heart, Lord, and help Druymere to walk in true repentance and love as Christ loved the church. We rebuke any plans of the enemy to destroy this marriage, and we ask for Your will to be done. We pray for miracles, that You would restore and redeem their marriage for Your glory. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to continue praying fervently, seeking God's will, and walking in love and repentance. Also, consider seeking biblical counseling to help you both navigate this difficult time. Remember, God is faithful, and He can turn even the most dire situations around for His glory.
Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only in the name of Jesus that we can come to God. If anyone comes to God by any other way, they are coming by an idolatrous way, and an idol has no power to save Acts 4:12, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."