We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your marriage, Daermuamen, and we're here to pray and provide biblical guidance for you.
Firstly, let's remember what the WEB says about marriage in Ephesians 5:22-33. The husband and wife should have a loving, respectful, and submissive relationship to one another, just as Christ loves and leads the church. It is clear that both of you need to put effort into honoring and respecting each other while living with each other in an understanding way, and to be careful to not let the enemy, Satan, cause division between you.
Your concerns about your husband's friendship with another married sister in the Lord are understandable, but it's crucial to address them in a biblical manner. Proverbs 14:30 says, "A calm heart gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones." Jealousy can consume you and cause more harm than good. The way you currently handle your concerns is not godly. Instead of trying to pull him away and arguing, consider talking to him about your feelings and praying together for God's will in your marriage. First Peter 3:8-9 reminds us," Finally, be like-minded, compassionate, loving as brothers, tenderhearted, courteous, not rendering evil for evil, or insult for insult; but instead blessing; knowing that to this were you called, that you may inherit a blessing." This is how we respond when we feel wronged and wish to overcome evil with good.
It's also important to remember that we should avoid even the appearance of evil, according to 1 Thessalonians 5:22. Both you and your husband should be mindful of your actions and friendships so that you don't give room for suspicion or misunderstandings. It is also important to think about how the other married person should be considering their spouse. This person needs to respect her marriage as well. In Galatians 5:19-21, it is clear that causes for divorce are identified and can include adultery which can even be a lust of the flesh. So it is important to protect both marriages by keep a good distance from any appearance of evil.
Now, let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister Daermuamen and her marriage. Lord, we know that marriage is a sacred institution, a reflection of Christ's love for the church such as in Ephesians 5:22-33. We pray for unity, understanding, and love to prevail in their home. We pray for healing and wisdom. Help them to communicate effectively and to be respectful and submissive to each other. We pray for understanding, that both may understand each other better and love each other more even as we are instructed in First Peter 3:7-8.
Lord, we rebuke the enemy's attempts to cause division and strife in their marriage. Cast out any spirit of jealousy, anger, or bitterness, and replace it with your love, peace, and understanding. Help Daermuamen to trust in you and to talk openly with her husband about her feelings and concerns.
We also pray for her husband, that you may guide him as the spiritual leader of the family and direct all of his communications toward other women to be godly and above reproach. We pray for spiritual discretion in all of his friendships and that he may consider the marriage of the other person. We pray for a hedge of protection to be placed around their marriage in Jesus name.
Help both of them to understand that both of them are heirs together of the grace of life in Jesus name. We pray that they do not give up on each other, and that they remember that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God as referenced in John 14:6.
In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen.