My marriage

[Leah’s]

Lord, I don’t know where we went wrong. I am begging for prayers over my marriage. I don’t want my children to suffer from this attack of the enemy . My husband has been awfully rude and disrespectful to me. I also feed into getting besides myself after his initial approach. I am so tired and hurt of the name calling, the threats to leave my family, the insults, and just everything I know isn’t who he is. He has grown bitter and we are all hurting from this. I’m asking in humility for any advice on how to stand strong and also have respect even when I am being cursed. I just found out that I am pregnant with baby number 3 and I have two little girls 1 & 10 months. This division is the last thing our family needs.

 

[Articles]

I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult time. Here are some suggestions that might help you navigate this challenging situation:

1. **Prayer and Faith:** Continue to pray for your marriage, your husband, and your family. Ask God for wisdom, strength, and guidance. Trust that God can bring healing and restoration to your marriage.

2. **Safety First:** If there is any physical abuse or threats of harm, please prioritize your safety and that of your children. Seek help from local domestic violence resources if needed.

3. **Communication:** Try to find a calm and quiet moment to express your feelings to your husband. Use "I" statements to convey how his actions make you feel, rather than blaming or criticizing him. For example, "I feel hurt when..." instead of "You always...".

4. **Counseling:** Consider seeking help from a professional marriage counselor. They can provide a safe space for you both to express your feelings and learn healthier ways of communicating. Many counselors also offer Christian-based counseling if you prefer that approach.

5. **Self-Control:** Try to remain calm and collected, even when he's being disrespectful. Responding with kindness and patience can often diffuse tension. Remember that you can only control your own actions and reactions.

6. **Support System:** Reach out to trusted friends, family, or a support group. Having people to talk to, pray with, and encourage you can make a significant difference.

7. **Self-Care:** Ensure you're taking care of your own physical, emotional, and spiritual needs, especially now that you're pregnant. This includes eating well, getting enough rest, and spending time in God's Word and in prayer.

8. **Set Boundaries:** It's important to set boundaries for what you will accept in your marriage. It's okay to say, "I will not tolerate being spoken to like this." Be clear, calm, and consistent with your boundaries.

9. **Focus on the Positive:** Try to focus on the good qualities in your husband and the good times you've shared. This can help you to approach him with more love and understanding.

10. **Professional Help:** If your husband's behavior is out of character, it might be a sign of an underlying issue such as stress, depression, or a health problem. Encourage him to seek help from a doctor or therapist.

11. **Patience:** Remember that change takes time. Keep praying, keep loving, and keep hoping for a better future.

12. **Your Children:** Try to keep your children's routines as normal as possible and reassure them of your love. Avoid arguing in front of them and keep them away from any harmful situations.

Here are a few scriptures that might encourage you:

- Romans 8:28: "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose."
- Philippians 4:6-7: "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."
- James 1:2-4: "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything."

 

[hostadmin]

We're right here with you, sister. It's heartbreaking to see your marriage in this state, but we're confident that God is still in control. We're lifting you and your family up in prayer, asking for healing, restoration, and wisdom for both you and your husband.

We want you to know that you're not alone. We're here for you, just like those two little girls who need their mama strong. You're carrying a precious life inside you, and it's important to take care of yourself too. Remember, God has a purpose and a plan in all this, and He will never leave you nor forsake you.

In this tough time, let's focus on what we can do. Keep praying, keep trusting, and keep loving. It's okay to set boundaries, to protect yourself and your children. It's also okay to ask for help, from friends, family, or even a professional counselor. We're here to support you in any way we can.

And remember, even in the midst of this storm, there's beauty in your love for your husband. There's strength in your resilience. There's hope in your faith. Keep holding on, keep fighting, and keep trusting in God's unfailing love.

We're praying for you, in Jesus' name.

 

[Leah’s]

I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult time. Here are some suggestions that might help you navigate this challenging situation:

1. **Prayer and Faith:** Continue to pray for your marriage, your husband, and your family. Ask God for wisdom, strength, and guidance. Trust that God can bring healing and restoration to your marriage.

2. **Safety First:** If there is any physical abuse or threats of harm, please prioritize your safety and that of your children. Seek help from local domestic violence resources if needed.

3. **Communication:** Try to find a calm and quiet moment to express your feelings to your husband. Use "I" statements to convey how his actions make you feel, rather than blaming or criticizing him. For example, "I feel hurt when..." instead of "You always...".

4. **Counseling:** Consider seeking help from a professional marriage counselor. They can provide a safe space for you both to express your feelings and learn healthier ways of communicating. Many counselors also offer Christian-based counseling if you prefer that approach.

5. **Self-Control:** Try to remain calm and collected, even when he's being disrespectful. Responding with kindness and patience can often diffuse tension. Remember that you can only control your own actions and reactions.

6. **Support System:** Reach out to trusted friends, family, or a support group. Having people to talk to, pray with, and encourage you can make a significant difference.

7. **Self-Care:** Ensure you're taking care of your own physical, emotional, and spiritual needs, especially now that you're pregnant. This includes eating well, getting enough rest, and spending time in God's Word and in prayer.

8. **Set Boundaries:** It's important to set boundaries for what you will accept in your marriage. It's okay to say, "I will not tolerate being spoken to like this." Be clear, calm, and consistent with your boundaries.

9. **Focus on the Positive:** Try to focus on the good qualities in your husband and the good times you've shared. This can help you to approach him with more love and understanding.

10. **Professional Help:** If your husband's behavior is out of character, it might be a sign of an underlying issue such as stress, depression, or a health problem. Encourage him to seek help from a doctor or therapist.

11. **Patience:** Remember that change takes time. Keep praying, keep loving, and keep hoping for a better future.

12. **Your Children:** Try to keep your children's routines as normal as possible and reassure them of your love. Avoid arguing in front of them and keep them away from any harmful situations.

Here are a few scriptures that might encourage you:

- Romans 8:28: "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose."
- Philippians 4:6-7: "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."
- James 1:2-4: "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything."

Thank you so much for this, I am so thankful to God and for you who created this platform. As I don’t have anyone to talk to about personal issues. I don’t have a big friend or close friends to share anything with that I know will pray with me and my family I have but in trying to save my husbands name I don’t talk to anyone. So thanks for this encouragement, I’ll screenshot and remind myself daily. To push through. In Jesus mighty name AMEN

 

[Folirn]

Praying for healing and restoration!!! In Jesus name AMEN.
May the Lord make a way. Remain Faithful in prayer. THE LORD WILL DO IT
AMEN.

 

[Folirn]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Arrem]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Arrem]

I'm so sorry you're going through such a difficult time. It sounds incredibly painful and challenging, but I admire your strength and your heart for wanting to protect your family, especially your children. I will certainly keep you in my thoughts and prayers, asking for God's peace, wisdom, and healing to surround your marriage and your family.

In these moments of tension, feeling deeply hurt and disrespected, it’s important to acknowledge your emotions and pain, but also to seek out ways to respond that reflect the love and grace you want for your family.

Please know that you're not alone, and you're doing everything you can in this difficult situation. Take things one day at a time, and lean on the support of others as you walk through this.

I'll be praying for peace, healing, and restoration in your marriage, and for strength and wisdom as you navigate this challenging time. May you feel God’s presence with you as you seek to bring peace and healing to your home.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.