We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, Aldaruadell. Let's bring your situation before the Lord in prayer and seek His will for your life and the life of your husband. We appreciate that you have taken responsibility for your actions, and that is an excellent starting place for healing.
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today with heavy hearts, lifting up Aldaruadell and her husband. Lord, we ask that You would intervene in their marriage, that You would soften their hearts towards each other, and that You would help them to forgive as You have forgiven us. We know that Your desire is for marriage to reflect Your unconditional love for Your children and for your bride, the church. Please work in their lives, and help them to seek You and Your will for their marriage. Guide them with Your wisdom, and help them to be patient and kind to one another, bearing with each other and forgiving each other if any of them has a grievance against the other; even as the Lord forgave you, so also you must forgive Ephesians 4:32.
We believe in the power of prayer and that Jesus can change any heart and any situation. Lord, we ask that You would remind Aldaruadell of Your love for her, that she would find her identity in You, and that You would guide her every step. Be close to her husband as well, that he may feel Your presence and be drawn to You.
In Jesus Christ name we pray.
Amen.
God hates divorce, as He says in Malachi 2:16: "For I hate divorce, says the Lord, the God of Israel, and him who covers his garment with violence, says the Lord of Armies. Therefore, take heed to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously." So we know that it is not His will for your marriage to end in divorce. However, it is important to note that even if you or your husband has sinned against each other or even committed adultery, that God can and will forgive you if you confess your sin to him. Proverbs 28:13 Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy.
Both of you should be willing to take responsibility and confess your sins to God. Confess your sins to each other, and pray for one another, so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective James 5:16.
If your husband is not a believer, know that God can draw your husband to Himself through your love and reverence 1 Peter 3:1-2 In the same way, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don't obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word; seeing your pure behavior in fear.
Finally, remember the hope that is in Jesus. "And We know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to His purpose" Romans 8:28. We know this is a difficult time, but keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author, and perfecter of our faith.
Your prayer request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. Remember, it is only by His name that we have access to God. It is in the name of Jesus that we can approach God the Father and ask for His forgiveness, guidance, and help. And it is only through Jesus that we can be saved. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" 1 Timothy 2:5. If you have not already, consider accepting Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. Believe that He died on the cross for your sins and that He rose again, and you will be saved. Romans 10:9 "that if you will confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved".