We are glad you have reached out for prayer regarding your love life. We want to encourage you and remind you that God has a purpose and plan for your life, including your relationships. It's crucial to seek God's will and align your desires with His. The Bible tells us in 1 John 5:14-15 WEB, "This is the boldness which we have toward him, that, if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us. And if we know that he listens to us, whatever we ask, we know that we have the petitions which we have asked of him."
Firstly, we want to remind you that God designed marriage to be between a man and a woman, as outlined in the Bible. Genesis 2:24 WEB says, "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh." If you are currently in a relationship, ensure it aligns with biblical principles and that you are both Christians believing in Jesus. 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB says, "Donβt be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
One of God's commands is to abstain from sexual immorality. so if you are engaging in premarital sex or any sexual activity outside of marriage, we strongly urge you to repent and turn away from this sin. The Bible teaches in 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who donβt know God.".
If you are not currently seeking a relationship with Jesus Christ, we encourage you to start your journey with Him. It is only in Jesus that we can come to God and we are saved to eternal life. It is only by the name of Jesus that we can pray. If your request did not mention Jesus, it was noted. John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" Please confess your sins, repent and turn to Jesus Christ today! Then you will know He will hear your prayers and answer them according to His will.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this dear one who seeks Your will for their love life. We do not ask for lust but rather healthy Godly relationships. We ask for open eyes and ears, and discernment, and Godly spouses if marriage is Your will for them.
We pray for purity and abstinence from sexual immorality and from all sin. We ask Father God that if in a relationship that the two will be unequally yoked with another believer that they will be shown revelation of this fact and choose to act upon it. Surround them with Your love and wisdom. Guide them in Your truth. Hear and answer our prayers according to Your will. Help us to accept Your will, even if it does not match our own desires.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB
We will continue to pray for God's best for you. Keep your faith and trust in Jesus Christ.