My living situation is unbelievable

[Anonymous]

I have a stepson who uses me, steals my things and throws them away, treats me horribly daily and won't work or move out. He's been an adult for years. It causes us discord and we can't maintain peace or control our environment. His mom worked curses and he does but follows it with religion. It's evil
I'm so exhausted after the past 3 years. I want to live away from him but he's staying on purpose. Some days he sleeps til 7pm. I have to be quiet all day and work from home. What I thought God put together, is turning into the opposite and I am stressed 24/7 and am made to feel invisible. It caused fights and I catch him smiling . I went away, he won't feed pets. My fish die and he laughs. My health is getting bad from stress and my getting older . I think he wants to get me out and my relationship fails. He started going to church and covering what he's doing in front of his dad so it looks like I lie.
He plays violent video games 24/7 and calls out of work. I know that nothing is impossible for Jesus but I feel incredibly low

 

[Articles]

We understand the immense stress and pain you're experiencing, and we want to lift you up in prayer and provide biblical guidance. First, let's pray:

"Dear Father in Heaven, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ to lift up our sister who is hurting. Lord, she feels invisible, exhausted, and stressed due to her living situation. We ask that You surround her with Your love and protection. Please bring peace and resolution to her home. Open the eyes of her stepson and soften his heart. May Your will be done in their lives. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Now, let's look at what the Bible says about your situation. Remember, God is a God of order, not chaos. He wants peace in your home: "As far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone." (Romans 12:18 WEB)

It's clear that your stepson is not acting in a godly manner. The Bible tells us, "If any man refuses to work, neither let him eat." (2 Thessalonians 3:10 WEB) His actions align more with the description of the sluggard in Proverbs: "The sluggard will not plow by reason of the winter; therefore he shall beg in harvest, and have nothing." (Proverbs 20:4 WEB)

Moreover, his treatment of you and the animals is cruel and not reflective of the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23 WEB). It's important to remember that God sees your pain and hears your cries: "You have seen it, Yahweh. Don’t keep silent. Lord, don’t be far from me." (Psalm 35:22 WEB)

As for his religious façade, Jesus warned us about such people: "Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly are ravening wolves. By their fruits you will know them." (Matthew 7:15-16 WEB)

Here's what you can do:

1. **Pray**: Continue to pray for wisdom, strength, and peace.
2. **Set boundaries**: It's okay to say 'no' and set boundaries to protect your physical, mental, and emotional wellbeing.
3. **Speak the truth**: Expose the lies and manipulation, but do so in a calm and wise manner. "The truth will set you free." (John 8:32 WEB)
4. **Trust God**: Remember, God has a plan for you, and He will see you through this. "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,' says Yahweh, 'thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future.'" (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB)

Lastly, it's encouraging that you acknowledge the power of Jesus' name. Keep trusting in Him and remember that He is with you always. "If God is for us, who can be against us?" (Romans 8:31 WEB)

 

[Robert Pearson]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, friend. We've been thinking about your situation and wanted to share some more encouragement. It's like you're in a storm right now, but remember, Jesus is right there with you in the boat, just like He was with His disciples (Matthew 8:23-27). He sees your tears and hears your cries. He's not surprised by what's happening, and He's not distant. He's right there, ready to calm the storm.

We want to remind you of a few things:

1. **You're not alone**: Even when it feels like you're invisible, you're seen. You're loved. You're not alone. God is with you, and so are we, praying for you.

2. **It's okay to ask for help**: If you haven't already, consider reaching out to a local pastor, a trusted friend, or a professional counselor. Sometimes, we all need a little extra support.

3. **Boundaries are okay**: It's okay to set boundaries to protect your peace and well-being. Jesus told us, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28). Make sure you're taking care of yourself too.

4. **God is working**: Even when it doesn't feel like it, God is working things out for your good (Romans 8:28). Trust that He has a plan, and He's working it out in His perfect timing.

5. **Pray without ceasing**: Keep praying. Keep talking to Jesus. He's listening. He cares. He's there.

Let's keep lifting you up in prayer, dear friend. We're believing for peace, for change, for healing, and for God's will to be done in your situation. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Eioch]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[LillyAngel]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you.

 

[Elizabeth F]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Arike]

We understand the immense stress and pain you're experiencing, and we want to lift you up in prayer and provide biblical guidance. First, let's pray:

"Dear Father in Heaven, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ to lift up our sister who is hurting. Lord, she feels invisible, exhausted, and stressed due to her living situation. We ask that You surround her with Your love and protection. Please bring peace and resolution to her home. Open the eyes of her stepson and soften his heart. May Your will be done in their lives. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Now, let's look at what the Bible says about your situation. Remember, God is a God of order, not chaos. He wants peace in your home: "As far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone." (Romans 12:18 WEB)

It's clear that your stepson is not acting in a godly manner. The Bible tells us, "If any man refuses to work, neither let him eat." (2 Thessalonians 3:10 WEB) His actions align more with the description of the sluggard in Proverbs: "The sluggard will not plow by reason of the winter; therefore he shall beg in harvest, and have nothing." (Proverbs 20:4 WEB)

Moreover, his treatment of you and the animals is cruel and not reflective of the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23 WEB). It's important to remember that God sees your pain and hears your cries: "You have seen it, Yahweh. Don’t keep silent. Lord, don’t be far from me." (Psalm 35:22 WEB)

As for his religious façade, Jesus warned us about such people: "Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly are ravening wolves. By their fruits you will know them." (Matthew 7:15-16 WEB)

Here's what you can do:

1. **Pray**: Continue to pray for wisdom, strength, and peace.
2. **Set boundaries**: It's okay to say 'no' and set boundaries to protect your physical, mental, and emotional wellbeing.
3. **Speak the truth**: Expose the lies and manipulation, but do so in a calm and wise manner. "The truth will set you free." (John 8:32 WEB)
4. **Trust God**: Remember, God has a plan for you, and He will see you through this. "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,' says Yahweh, 'thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future.'" (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB)

Lastly, it's encouraging that you acknowledge the power of Jesus' name. Keep trusting in Him and remember that He is with you always. "If God is for us, who can be against us?" (Romans 8:31 WEB)

We pray this for you in Jesus name, amen

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.