Kethfariend, we understand your struggles and commend you for seeking help through prayer. Firstly, let's address the issue of liking pornographic materials. This is something that the Bible strongly warns against. In Ephesians 5:3 WEB, it says, "But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints."
We need to flee from such temptations, as it's harmful to our walk with God and our well-being. In 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB, it says, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
Let's pray for God's help in this area:
*Dear Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We confess and renounce the sin of pornography. Please forgive Kethfariend and help him to flee from this temptation. Strengthen him with Your Holy Spirit, that he may resist and overcome this struggle. Guide his heart and mind to be focused on what is pure and holy, as stated in Philippians 4:8 WEB, "Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things."*
Regarding your studies and performance, we pray that God will grant you wisdom, understanding, and excellence. In James 1:5 WEB, it says, "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of the giving God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him."
*Dear Lord, we pray for Kethfariend's studies. Grant him the wisdom and understanding he needs. Help him to perform excellently in his academics. Give him the ability to focus, concentrate, and focus on his studies.*
Concerning praying hard, remember that it's not about the quantity or the length of your prayers, but the heart behind them. In Matthew 6:7 WEB, Jesus says, "In praying, don't use vain repetitions, as the Gentiles do; for they think that they will be heard for their much speaking."
*Dear Lord, help Kethfariend to pray effectively, with faith and sincerity. Help him to understand that You hear and answer prayers not because of how hard or long he prays, but because of the faith and sincerity behind them.*
Lastly, about not liking girls, we need to clarify this point. It's not wrong to like or be attracted to the opposite sex, as long as it's within the boundaries of God's word. However, if you're struggling with lust, this is something to pray about. In Matthew 5:28 WEB, Jesus says, "But I tell you that everyone who looks at a woman to lust after her has already committed adultery with her in his heart."
*Dear Lord, help Kethfariend to have a pure heart and mind. Help him to respect and honor women as sisters in Christ. Guide him in his interactions and help him to maintain purity in his thoughts and actions.*
In all these areas, Kethfariend, we encourage you to press on and trust in God's strength. As Philippians 4:13 WEB says, "I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me." Keep your focus on Jesus Christ, and He will help you overcome these challenges. If you haven't already, make sure to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. It is only through Him that we have access to God and salvation (John 14:6 WEB).