Let's address this prayer request step by step and align it with biblical principles.
Firstly, it's wonderful to hear that you're seeking a new beginning and looking for happiness. We must remember that true joy and fulfillment come from a right relationship with God through Jesus Christ. It's concerning that Jesus' name was not mentioned directly. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written: For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus. Who gave himself as a ransom for all; the testimony in its own times (1 Timothy 2:5-6 WEB).
Regarding material possessions like a new TV, phone, or a place to live, while God wants us to have our daily needs met, it's crucial to seek His kingdom first: But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well. (Matthew 6:33, WEB).
We must be careful not to be consumed by material desires or a longing to get even with people who have wronged us. We are encouraged to forgive and pray for our enemies: But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you, (Matthew 5:44 WEB).
Now, let's discuss the delicate matter of relationships. It's clear that you desire a new romantic relationship, but we must approach this topic with biblical principles in mind. We should not look for mere physical attraction or someone to fulfill our emotional needs, but rather a godly spouse who will help us grow in our faith.
It's also critical to address that any romantic relationship should be pursued as a means of finding a Christian spouse rather than for casual dating. We are called to be holy: For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, (1 Thessalonians 4:3 WEB).
Further, it is not appropriate to discuss a hot guy, or a fine man or any descriptions of men or women that would suggest lust, fornication, or adultery. It is also not appropriate to discuss making love in this context. We are to be holy, pure, and self-controlled. To avoid immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. (1 Corinthians 7:2). We are also to avoid any appearance of evil (1 Thessalonians 5:22).
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Shaalkaari. We pray that You will guide them (or her) in Your will and help them (or her) to seek Your kingdom first. We ask that You provide for their (or her) daily needs and help them (or her) to forgive those who have wronged them (or her). We pray that You will guide them (or her) in their (or her) relationships, that they (or she) may find a godly spouse if it is Your will. Help them (or her) to live a holy and pure life, fleeing from any sexual immorality. We ask that You fill their (or her) heart with Your love and peace. And we ask this All In Jesus Name.
We encourage you to focus on your relationship with Jesus Christ and let the rest follow as He leads.