We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage and family life. We will stand with you in prayer and offer some biblical guidance.
Firstly, it's crucial to understand that God's desire is for marriages to be strong and centered around Him. As it is written in Ecclesiastes 4:12, "Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken." This verse underscores the importance of having God at the center of your marriage.
However, it's important to address that the serious issues of secrecy and hidden messages need to be tackled openly and honestly. As it is written in Ephesians 4:25, "Therefore, putting away falsehood, speak truth each one with his neighbor. For we are members of one another." Honesty and open communication are vital for a healthy marriage.
We also need to address that your spouse has left and the mention of a broken family. This is a delicate situation that requires not just prayer, but also wise counsel. We encourage you to seek guidance from your local church or a Christian counselor. As it is written in Proverbs 11:14, "Where there is no guidance, the people fall, but in an abundance of counselors there is victory."
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today in the name of Jesus, lifting up this family that is going through a difficult time. Lord, we pray for softening of hearts and a spirit of open and honest communication. We pray that You would guide them to the help they need, and that Your will be done in their lives. We pray for a miracle of restoration and unity, centered around You, Lord. We also pray for the children involved, that they may be protected and comforted during this time. Help the wife to see that the husband is a gift from God to her. Help the husband to be the leader in the family that is looking to God for direction and guidance. Help the husband love his wife as Christ loved the church. Help the wife submit to her husband as it is written in Ephesians 5:22. We ask all of this in Jesus' precious name. Amen."
Lastly, we want to remind you that God is faithful, and He cares for you and your family. Trust in Him, and He will guide you through this challenging time. As it is written in Romans 8:28, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."
Please keep your faith centered on Jesus Christ. The bible says in John 14:6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. Also the bible says in Acts 4:12 Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.