My ### is blocking me and manipulating me and complicating my life

[natasha2]

Lord please let my ### stop manipulating me and being controlling. Our ### is in hospital and he doesn't want to drive me with a car to the hospital because I don't have a car and it is uphill and complicated to come to the hospital. Lord my ### threatens me that he will persuade my ### not to leave me any inheritence and he has already received his part and me only one part. He accuses me that I take money from ###'s banc card because I have with myself to be able always to buy groceries for her and he insists that he will buy stuff for her, but I have a weird feeling that he has a master plan in his mind to rob me of my part...he is rude to me and has a commanding tone and I constantly must defend myself. He was in prison for ### months and using cocaine. My ### are favoring him since our childhood. Lord please don't let my ### and my ### who enjoys his attention to manipulate me into losing my inheritence. My ### has even once asked my ### to put their ### under mortgage so that he can buy ### for his little boy (???) and he was mad when my ### rejected the offer and they have only that ### and one garage. My ### even considered to do that(????)

 

[Articles]

We understand that you are going through a difficult situation involving manipulation, control, and potential financial exploitation from a family member. First, let us address this situation in prayer and then provide some biblical guidance.

Let us pray:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this beloved child in the midst of a turbulent family situation. Lord, you see the manipulation, the control, and the potential for financial harm. We pray that you intervene and bring peace, justice, and protection to this situation. May you soften the heart of the family member who is acting deceitfully. Lord, guide this person to repentance and to a place of compassion and understanding. Help them to see that their actions are not aligned with Your will.

Lord, we also pray for the family member in the hospital. We ask for Your healing touch and comfort during this time. We pray that this situation would not be used as a means of manipulation but rather as an opportunity for unity and love.

Father, we ask that you give this child wisdom and discernment. Help them to navigate this complex situation with grace and truth. Surround them with godly counsel and support. We pray that any plans to defraud or manipulate would be exposed and thwarted.

We also pray for the salvation of the family member who is acting deceitfully. We know, Lord, that you do not want anyone to perish but everyone to come to repentance. We pray that this person would come to know Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior and be transformed by Your love.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Now, let us look at some biblical principles and guidance for this situation.

The Bible warns us against manipulation and deceit. Proverbs 12:22 WEB says, "Lying lips are an abomination to Yahweh, but those who do the truth are his delight." It is clear that God despises deceit and manipulation.

In matters of inheritance and financial dealings, the Bible advises us to act with integrity and fairness. Leviticus 19:13 WEB says, "You shall not oppress your neighbor, nor rob him. The wages of a hired servant shall not remain with you all night until the morning." It is wrong to exploit others for financial gain.

Regarding the family member who is favoring the manipulative sibling, the Bible encourages us to be impartial. Proverbs 18:5 WEB says, "It is not good to be partial to the wicked, nor to deprive the innocent of justice." Favoritism can lead to injustice and strife.

It is also important to note that the Bible encourages us to forgive, but forgiveness does not mean allowing ourselves to be continually exploited. Matthew 18:15-17 WEB outlines the steps to address sin within the church, which can also apply to family situations. It is crucial to confront the sin, seek repentance, and involve others if necessary.

Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. Acts 4:12 WEB says, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" If you have not already, consider placing your faith in Jesus Christ for salvation.

Stand firm in your faith, seek godly counsel, and trust that God will bring justice and peace to this situation. Continue to pray and commit this matter to the Lord, trusting in His promises.

Psalm 37:5-6 WEB says, "Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this: he will make your righteousness go forth as the light, and your justice as the noon day sun."

God bless you and keep you in His care.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, dear friend. We understand the complexity of your situation and the emotional toll it's taking on you. Let's pray together, shall we?

Lord Jesus, we come before You today, lifting up our sister in need. She's feeling trapped, manipulated, and controlled by a family member who's causing her life to be uphill and complicated. Lord, we ask for Your intervention. We pray that You would open the eyes of this family member, that they may see the harm they're causing and turn from their deceitful ways. Give them a heart of compassion and understanding, Lord. We also pray for the family member in the hospital. We ask for Your healing touch and that this situation would bring them closer to You and to our sister, rather than driving them apart.

Lord, we ask for wisdom for our sister. Help her navigate this complex situation with grace and truth. Give her the words to say and the strength to stand firm in what is right. We pray that any plans to defraud or manipulate would be exposed and thwarted. And Lord, we pray for the salvation of the family member causing harm. We know that You desire for none to perish, but for all to come to repentance. Bring them to a place of surrender and transformation through Your love.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Let's remember, dear one, that God sees you, He knows your heart, and He's fighting for you. Trust in Him, seek godly counsel, and stand firm in your faith. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths." God will guide you through this storm. Keep your eyes on Him and keep moving forward. We're praying for you, sister. You're not alone.

 

[learningtoletgo]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear sister, as you navigate this difficult family situation. We are grateful that you have shared your burden with us and have given us the privilege to intercede on your behalf. We stand in agreement with you, praying that the Lord will intervene and soften your family member's heart, putting an end to the manipulation and control you've been experiencing.

We are praying for your protection, for the Lord to guide you and provide for your needs, especially during this time when your family member is in the hospital. May the Lord also work in your other family member's heart, that they may see the truth and not be swayed by manipulation.

If you have seen improvements in this situation, we would love for you to share a praise report with us, glorifying God for His faithfulness. If the issues persist, please feel free to post an update, and we will continue to pray with you and for you.

We are also praying for your family members' salvation and complete surrender to Jesus, that they may be freed from their past mistakes and walk in newness of life. Remember, the battle is not yours but the Lord's, and He is faithful to help you through this trial. Keep seeking Him and trusting in His promises. We are here with you in prayer, believing that God will make a way where there seems to be no way. In Jesus Name.

Please know that you are not alone in this struggle. We are continuing to stand with you in prayer, trusting that the Lord will bring resolution, restoration, and peace to your family. Take heart, and let's continue to seek the Lord together.