My Husband Wont Stop Cheating And Neglecting His Family

[shay1981]

We have been together 11 years married for 9 years we have three sons ages 10,9,and 4..We have been going thru alot of issues with my husband constant cheating,leaving us and refusing to talk to me,I have stayed bc i love him and want him to stop cheating and help raise our sons together and love me as a wife,but he still hasnt done any of this,He gets mad at me over anything and all i do is cry and ask why and it upsets him more,as long as i dnt say anyhting and just go on like it dsnt bother me then he is happy and but im not,I dnt no if i should just let him go and move on or what..I want you to please pray that God touches his heart and soften it towards me and the kids and God restore him as a husband and the father he is supposed to be bc he isnt my husband right now,I pray God give me and my sons peace and God remove the evil that has a hold on my Husband,and God feel his heart and his soul with the holy spirit and transform him into a Godly man,I love my husband even though he caiuses so much hurt to me,I just wish he will wake up..I dnt no whatelse to do im tired of begging,crying,being alone,stressing,over him..I give it all to you God in Jesus name i pray amen..

We have been together 11 years married for 9 years we have three sons ages 10,9,and 4..We have been going thru alot of issues with my husband constant cheating,leaving us and refusing to talk to me,I have stayed bc i love him and want him to stop cheating and help raise our sons together and love me as a wife,but he still hasnt done any of this,He gets mad at me over anything and all i do is cry and ask why and it upsets him more,as long as i dnt say anyhting and just go on like it dsnt bother me then he is happy and but im not,I dnt no if i should just let him go and move on or what..I want you to please pray that God touches his heart and soften it towards me and the kids and God restore him as a husband and the father he is supposed to be bc he isnt my husband right now,I pray God give me and my sons peace and God remove the evil that has a hold on my Husband,and God feel his heart and his soul with the holy spirit and transform him into a Godly man,I love my husband even though he caiuses so much hurt to me,I just wish he will wake up..I dnt no whatelse to do im tired of begging,crying,being alone,stressing,over him..I give it all to you God in Jesus name i pray amen..

 

[PrayingWithPower]

Do you really give it all to the Lord? A lot of times we say we give it to God and then we take it back. If you're ready to go to battle for your territory (family) you have to commit to praying prayers of forgiveness to your husband. You can start by looking at my blog posts, there are some prayers about forgiveness written there that are anointed and will lead to supernatural understanding and blessing.

Pray in the spirit. You also need to declare the blood of Jesus over yourself, husband, children, home & everything you own daily & bind satan and command him to stop hindering you daily. God has given you every spiritual weapon you need to win this battle. Get to work and reclaim the territory that God gave you.

 

[firstlady]

Father God, I stand for Shay for I know this spirit in the man and I have the time with and challenges with my man. I stand for my sister for I am familiar and strong and fight for the release of the lustful demon in all men in the universe.

IN THE NAME OF JESUS, I COMMAND THIS FOUL SPIRIT OF UNFAITHFULNESS UP AND OFF THE MEN IN THIS UNIVERSE. I COMMAND THE CHATTER IN THEIR EARS TO BE SILENT! IN THE NAME OF JESUS AND THAT THIS DEMON BE LOOSED FROM THEIR EAR GATES AND THROWN INTO THE OUTER REGINS OF THE UNIVERSE NEVER TO RETURN TO THEM IN THIS LIFE TIME. I COMMAND THIS STRONGMAN CALLED "THE SPIRIT OFWHOREDOMS" AND ALLL ITS WORKS, ROOTS, FRUITS, TENTACLES, LINKS AND SPIRITS BE LOOSED FROM THE MEN IN THE UNIVERSE- SPIRITS OF UNFAITHFULNESS/ADULTERY (EZ. 16:15, 28; PROV 5:1-4; GAL 5:29), SPIRITS OF SPIRIT, SOUL AND BODY PROSTITUTION (EZ. 16:28, DEUT 23:17, 18), SPIRIT OF CHRONIC DYSFUNCTION (EZ 16:28), SPIRIT OF IDOLATRY (JUD 2:17, EZ 1:6, LEV 17:7), SPIRIT FOR LOVE OF MONEY (PROV 15:27, I TIM 6:7-14), SPIRITS OF EXCESSIVE APPETITES/GLUTTONY (COR 6:13-16, PHIL 3:19), SPIRIT OF FORNICATION (HOS 4:13-19), SPIRIT OF WORLINESS (JAMES 4:4), SPIRIT OF STEALING- BREAK ALL SOULTIES (GEN 2:24; I COR 6:16). I LOOSE THE SPIRIT OF GOD, A PURE SPIRIT (EPH 3:16) INTO THE UNIVERSE AND IN THE HOMES OF EVERYONE I PRAYED FOR ON THIS SITE, IN THE NAME OF JSEUS.

 

[hadassah]

I can't tell you what you should do, Shay, but I will share this testimony of a sister in the Lord, who I met in Israel. Her husband cheated on her for 18 years. One day the Lord got hold of this husband and he was forever changed. He asked the Lord to forgive him, but he never asked his wife. The wife, meanwhile had an encounter with the Lord. He reviewed her life with her and she realized that she had been forgiven of many horrible things she had done, and forgave her husband. They are doing wonderfully now and going on many mission trips, ministering to others.

This scripture Jesus as He hung on the cross cried out: "Father! forgive them, they know not what they do!"

So if you look at your situation this way, your husband is not in his right mind because if he were, he would not be doing what he is doing. If he were following Christ, he would not even consider such an act because he would see you as his virtuous wife and love you as Christ loves the church.

I agree with prayingwithpower about forgiveness. Forgiving is not so much for him, but for you. It helps begin the healing process for you and also, from my own experience, the Lord is able to work in your husband's life that area you held in unforgiveness. It really is a releasing and letting go and allowing the Lord to work process. It is freeing and the burdens roll away. So I encourage you to do that also.

Father, thank you for being in this situation. Nothing takes you by surprise and in fact, you use these trials of our lives to grow us up in Christ. It is recognizing that we can't do it, but you can, glory to God. I pray encouragement for Shay and peace as she releases to you those hurts, disappointments, discouragements, anger, frustrations, begging, pleading for her husband to change, that she would just rest in you and watch your hand move.

Bless this marriage with restoration and redemption, in Jesus name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

I have asked God to honor your prayer request in Jesus’ name.

Let’s Pray… God I ask in Jesus’ name, walk through my home, the homes of all my Christian family members, Christian friends (but especially my home Lord Jesus), and the writer of this prayer, take away all our worries, fears, and doubts that You will come through for us. Come through for us Lord Jesus as You have promised in Your Word. Fix what is wrong in our lives and in our homes. Deliver us from all fears and anxieties. Deliver us from evil. If there is anything in our lives that is not of You God, Deliver us from it. God let the favor of God be upon us. Let Your presence, wisdom, understanding, strength, courage, protection, healing and deliverance power be with us and rest upon our lives. Let love, joy, peace, kindness, gentleness, and self-control rest in us and upon us. Let all the fruits of the Holy Spirit be in operation in all our lives. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in each of us. Bless us with the desires of our heart that is the will of God for our lives. Bless us. Supply all our need according to Your riches in glory by Christ Jesus.

Bless us with new jobs, better jobs, promotions, raises, and increase in our finances. Bless each of us with wisdom to become wise stewards over all that You have or will bless us with. But most importantly, let our lifestyle be shaped by the Word of God. Teach us all how to love, honor, and respect You with our life, spirit, soul, and body. And God all my family and friends that are not saved, I ask that You will send someone into their lives and minister the gift of salvation unto them. Save my family and friends Lord Jesus. I ask all of this in Jesus’ name. Amen!!!

Encourager Linda Flagg, LM, CS

Christian Life Coach & Youth Minister

 

[mysticcricket]

Lord blesss all who are depressed and lift our spirits through your word. send a better relationship for this family to enjoy a loving husband and Father. Amen.