Yuwanorel
Disciple of Prayer
My husband is on another stint of abandoning me emotionally and blaming me for 100% of all our marital problems. He does this then threatens divorce if I don’t grovel by apologizing multiple times for things he does also, but he never actually apologizes himself. He is blind to any other perspective than his own. He’s been a police officer for close to 20 years and I think that plays into how he thinks and how he talks to me when we have any disagreement. Controlling the conversation, talking over me, shutting me down. I love him and want our marriage to go on til we die, but I can’t be the only one who is willing to look at the things I need to change. He doesn’t see the damage he does by the way he acts towards me. Only God can open his eyes. Please pray with me that He does before my husband destroys our family. I am willing for God to do whatever He wills to do within me, but my husband needs to be made willing as well. His cold and self-righteous heart has got to die and be replaced with God’s love and wisdom. When God when?