My husband is irresponsible and I’ve lost interest in him. He is so kind but he can’t show love.
Relationships:
We are all sinners and not perfect.
Because of that, we often get into conflicts with others.
God says if two people agree it will be done.
People like talking about themselves. If you keep the conversation on the other person and what they like, they will love you.
Don't try to get your way or prove you are right; just be confident in yourself. After all, you are God's child, and He loves you.
Scriptures on how to treat others:
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
And as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them.
Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
“This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.
“So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.
Masturbation:
Masturbation is not listed as a sin in the Bible.
It has some healthy physical qualities and is used in many marriages.
It can become a problem when used with lust or pornography.
Then it may become an addiction.
God wants you to love yourself.
Psalm 139:14 I will give thanks to you because I have been so amazingly and miraculously made.
Ephesians 5:29 For no one has ever hated his own body, but he nourishes and tenderly cares for it, as the Messiah does the church.
Leviticus 19:34 Treat them like native-born Israelites, and love them as you love yourself.
1 John 4:19 We love because God first loved us.