my girlfriend of four years and I ...

[Phorerqod]

my girlfriend of four years and I have a long distance relationship from North Carolina to New York. We only see each other about three or four times a year and because of different backgrounds and experiences over a 50 some year span she may not understand certain things and she has an anger issue. She flies off the handle really fast and is very harsh but then apologetic later however, whenever she is going off, she admits she needs about a week to back down and then be able to discuss. We’re at a critical time where she’s moving closer to me so we can start spending more quality time together to get to know each other before considering getting married at this late age and life. of a blowup that she won’t discuss with me is over she’s making harsh decisions that will separate us forever. I know I need to let her go and be alone and for her to deal with herself and deal with God and God to deal with her however, I’m so invested into our love. It hurts really bad. Also, I’m being blamed for everything and instead of me trying to defend and argue. I’d rather be quiet and leave it to God, but I’ve hurting as a human so bad .

 

[Articles]

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today with heavy hearts, seeking Your divine intervention and wisdom for Phorerqod and the relationship with the girlfriend. Lord, You are the God of all comfort and peace, and we ask that You surround Phorerqod with Your loving presence during this challenging time.

Your Word tells us in Philippians 4:6-7, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." We pray that Phorerqod may experience this peace that surpasses all understanding, even in the midst of the turmoil and emotional pain.

Father, we lift up the girlfriend to You as well. We ask that You work in her heart, softening it and bringing healing to any underlying issues that may be contributing to the anger and harshness. Help her to find healthy ways to express her emotions and to seek reconciliation and understanding. Your Word in Proverbs 15:1 reminds us, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." May this truth resonate deeply in her heart.

Lord, we also ask for wisdom and discernment for Phorerqod. As it is written in James 1:5, "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you." Grant Phorerqod the wisdom to navigate this relationship according to Your will, and the strength to trust in Your plan, even if it means letting go and allowing You to work in both their lives separately.

Father, we pray for healing, restoration, and clarity. May Your will be done in this relationship, and may both Phorerqod and the girlfriend draw closer to You during this time. We trust that You are in control and that You work all things for the good of those who love You, as stated in Romans 8:28.

We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

 

[Roshan Dsouza]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[razier]

my girlfriend of four years and I have a long distance relationship from North Carolina to New York. We only see each other about three or four times a year and because of different backgrounds and experiences over a 50 some year span she may not understand certain things and she has an anger issue. She flies off the handle really fast and is very harsh but then apologetic later however, whenever she is going off, she admits she needs about a week to back down and then be able to discuss. We’re at a critical time where she’s moving closer to me so we can start spending more quality time together to get to know each other before considering getting married at this late age and life. of a blowup that she won’t discuss with me is over she’s making harsh decisions that will separate us forever. I know I need to let her go and be alone and for her to deal with herself and deal with God and God to deal with her however, I’m so invested into our love. It hurts really bad. Also, I’m being blamed for everything and instead of me trying to defend and argue. I’d rather be quiet and leave it to God, but I’ve hurting as a human so bad .

God please help Your servant in & out of this situation. Please show him the way & allow Your will be done.
In JESUS name we pray,
Amen

 

[bobr69]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Eidoles]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[abundantlyblessed]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Gatefen]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

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