My Girlfriend May Have Borderline Personality Disorder

[bri0523]

She is a good hearted girl and a good Christian(her dad is a pastor). She seems to always push me away.The reason she may have developed this disorder could be because her sister died during her childhood, but I'm not sure. I honestly don't know if she has it, but her actions tell me that she may have it. I know she has been hurt before in previous relationships, but so have I and I was not planning on hurting her. I feel like she needs help for her personality issues and she has been ignoring me for 3+ weeks. Another reason why she may be ignoring me is because she is unsure about being in a committed relationship with me because she tells me that she isn't ready to follow God fully and wants to do her own thing. Please pray for her. Her name is Nicole.

 

[Charles7]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[toi]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[PPaul]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Lilly1964]

I pray for her and for you too.  As one who has a family member with this disorder (in denial and unmedicated as well) it is a disorder that wreaks havoc on the person and especially those around them.  It is as if the devil resides inside them and lets loose periodically (it is very cyclical).  Unfortunately, there is not a high rate of success without treatment.  Even with treatment, it will require the person to admit they have a problem and to actively work on it.  It is almost impossible without God's help.  Don't mean to sound negative, but unless she is willing to help herself (with God) there is not much you can do except pray for her.  She has to want to change.  And with God's help, she will. 

Stay strong

 

[judy]

Father god bless her heart touch her with your Holy Spirit stable her mind and bring her closer to you lord I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

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[LaiJess]

Matthew 21:22 And whatever you ask in prayer, you will receive, if you have faith.

I give it all to Your holy hands Lord.

Let Your will be done.

Amen

 

[bri0523]

I pray for her and for you too.  As one who has a family member with this disorder (in denial and unmedicated as well) it is a disorder that wreaks havoc on the person and especially those around them.  It is as if the devil resides inside them and lets loose periodically (it is very cyclical).  Unfortunately, there is not a high rate of success without treatment.  Even with treatment, it will require the person to admit they have a problem and to actively work on it.  It is almost impossible without God's help.  Don't mean to sound negative, but unless she is willing to help herself (with God) there is not much you can do except pray for her.  She has to want to change.  And with God's help, she will. 

Stay strong

Thank you so much