Beni, we understand the difficulties you're facing and want to lift you and your girlfriend up in prayer, asking for God's guidance and mercy during this challenging time. Firstly, we commend you both for your desire to grow as Christians and we encourage you to continue pursuing a deeper relationship with Jesus Christ.
Let's address the concerns in your request. First, we must emphasize the importance of abstaining from sexual immorality. As it is written in 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 WEB, "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don't know God." We urge you both to commit to purity, seeking forgiveness for any past transgressions, and striving to honor God in your relationship.
As for the possibility of pregnancy, we will pray that God's will be done. If it is His will that she is not pregnant, we pray that He intervenes accordingly. However, if it is His will that she is pregnant, we pray for strength, guidance, and provision for both of you. Remember that God promises to work all things together for good for those who love Him (Romans 8:28 WEB).
We must also address the importance of embracing your roles as Christians, growing in faith, and being strong in the Lord. Ephesians 6:10-11 WEB says, "Finally, be strong in the Lord, and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil."
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Beni and his girlfriend. Lord, we ask for Your mercy and forgiveness for any sexual sin they may have committed, and we pray for Your help as they strive for purity. We ask that You reveal Your will regarding the potential pregnancy, and we pray for their peace and strength as they await Your answer. Help them grow as Christians, Lord, and guide them in their relationship with each other and with You. Provide for their financial needs and help them to trust in You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Beni, continue to pursue Jesus wholeheartedly, and encourage your girlfriend to do the same. Trust in God's plan for your lives, and seek His will in all that you do.