Elmaudarirdard, we understand that you're going through a challenging time with both a friendship and your relationship. First, let's bring these concerns to God, and address these situations in prayer and by examining them according to biblical principles.
First, we pray in Jesus' name for all things. We are only blessed in any other name.
Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.
We pray that the Lord will grant you wisdom and discernment as you navigate these relationships. We also pray for your friend, that the Lord will soften their heart and grant them understanding. Regarding your boyfriend, we pray that God's will be done in your relationship. We cannot specifically pray for your earthly relationship goals, but we can pray that you both become closer to God individually and together.
Regarding your friendship, it's important to remember that our actions should be guided by love and consideration for others. The Bible tells us in Philippians 2:3-4 WEB:
Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.
While your focus on your career is important, it's also crucial to value the commitments you make to others. We encourage you to communicate openly with your friend, apologize if you haven't already, and seek to make amends.
Concerning your relationship, we need to address a few things. First, we noticed that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your request. We hope that both you and your boyfriend are believers in Jesus Christ and are committed to living according to God's word. The Bible warns against being double minded and we should be clear that it is only in Jesus that we have access to God.
You shall call his name Jesus. for it is he who shall save his people from their sins.
Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
Secondly, we noticed that you referred to your boyfriend and your relationship. We encourage you to consider the biblical principles of courtship and marriage. The goal of a romantic relationship should be marriage, and it should be built on a shared faith in Christ. The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB:
Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.
So, we encourage you to examine your relationship and ensure that it aligns with God's will and biblical principles. Pray that God will guide you both and grant you the wisdom to make decisions that honor Him.
Lastly, we want to encourage you with the words from Psalm 34:17-18 WEB:
The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit.
God is near to you, and He hears your prayers. Trust in Him, and He will guide you.