THERE IS A NEED TO KNOW; THE WORD OF GOD TELLS US THAT WITH "LOVE AND KINDNESS" HAVE I DRAWN THEE ! IT ALSO DECLARES; TO HAVE A FRIEND WE MUST BE ONE ! (SOWING TO REAP) IN WHATEVER AREA IS AT HAND. BUT ONE THING IS FOR SURE ; IF GOD GAVE YOU TO SEE WHAT THE TROUBLE IS IN THIS PERSONS LIFE. THEN SURELY YOU KNOW IT IS "YOUR" TASK ! THE WORD OF GOD DECLARES ; GREATER LOVE HAS NO MAN THAN HE WHO LAYS DOWN HIS LIFE FOR HIS BROTHER. JESUS DID NOT TALK ABOUT THE SIN RATHER; CAME TO SET THE CAPTIVES FREE !!! STAY BEFORE GOD FOR THIS SOUL, THAT HAS BEEN PUT BEFORE YOU TO SEE WHAT YOU WILL DO FOR THEM ? JESUS WOULD THAT NONE SHOULD PERISH ! WE MUST HAVE THE MIND OF CHRIST ! (RENEWED BY HIS WORD) THEN THE ANSWERS WILL COME. THERE SHOULD BE A LOVE OF GOD SO COMPASSIONATE FOR THIS PERSON, THAT MOVES GOD ON YOUR BEHALF. (SEEK GOD ABOUT THIS) OBEY HIM ! AND MOVE ON. BUT THIS YOUR CROSS, AS SURE AS IT SET BEFORE YOU ! (BARE IT IN CHRIST). AND KNOW THAT ALL THOSE THINGS YOU SPEAK ABOUT THIS PERSON IS NOT TRUE ! THAT IS A SPIRIT, THAT COMES TO STEAL,KILL AND DESTROY ! IT CANNOT IF YOU STAY IN OBEDIENCE , GOD NEVER FAILS ! (YOUR SEEING THE WRONG THING ABOUT THE PERSON) THIS IS NOT IN FAITH. AND NEVER FORGET? ALL HAVE SIN AND CAME SHORT OF GODS GLORY ! HIS WORD FURTHER DECLARES, "IF WE SAY WE HAVE NO SIN, WE LIE AND THE TRUTH IS NOT IN US" (THE WORD OF GOD) BE BLESS...