My Fiance Ended Things With Me Today

[Heidicat5]

I had asked for prayer this morning for Satan to leave my relationship. As my fiance had been speaking with another woman while our year apart, as I had to return to my country and sell my home. And I had found out he is in love with her. Today he ended everything with me. I am so distraught and heartbroken. Please pray for me, I am at the end of my rope. I feel suicide feelings even though I know GOD does not want this, it is feelings I am dealing with. I need prayers for my fiance to wake up and come back, even though he did this he has been such a good man in every other way. Thank you for the prayers. His name is German (Herman) and mine is Heidi

God Bless!

 

[Daim]

Lord, please heal this relationship and grant Heidi help and Your loving mercy through this difficult time. Through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

 

[cbreezes67]

Lord I pray for this individual who feels that death is the next best thing to what you have to offer and have given her. Let her realize her worth and value and that no man except you Lord is worth dying for. Heal her heart and fill it with your love. Help her to know that you have plans for her and may have the right person out there waiting for her. Console and fill her heart. Lead her to right people and keep her safe. Do not let Satan influence her heart to destroy her own soul. In Jesus Name Amen!

 

[hope41]

Jesus, I am asking you to heal Heidi. She is feeling depressed and sad because her Fiance had ended their relationship because he is love with another woman. You said that time heals all wounds and heal her broken heart. I believe that you have someone out there for Heidi.

Help her to forgive German and move forward with her life. When door closes, another opens. I believe this will be in your name Jesus Amen.

 

[August84]

Hi Heidi,

I had this exact same thing happen to me 10 years ago. I thought I was going to die. The only reason I stayed alive was because my young daughter depended on me. I tried going back and forgiving this person many times and finally after several years, I had to end it because I just couldn't do it anymore. After not hearing from this man at all for 3 years, he found me on the internet and suprised me one day this past spring by hunting down my new address and just showed up at my front door. He told me he realized how much he always loved me and he wanted to marry me. You need to understand this person is the person that I love being with. He is a good person, talented, gorgeous, he is one of the only people on earth that "gets me". He's very wealthy and I'm not. He's everything I could dream of wanting. I spent several months toying with getting back with him. I never in a million years thought I would say it, but it became clear to me that I couldn't be with him even though I loved him. He isn't the right one for me. I can't depend on him to be there through thick and thin. If I would have married him, and stayed with him, I would have been miserable.

Joel Osteen said something poignant in his sermon this week. If someone leaves you, don't be all depressed and sad. If someone leaves, there is absolutely nothing you can do to stop it. You have be trust God that change has to happen to be able to propel you on to better things. He also said, Don't beg them, don't play up to them, don't let them manipulate you. Just keep on doing what you need to do to make your life happy and let God do the rest.

I know this is hard to hear this when you try to sleep and can't and when you finally get a couple hours of sleep due to exhaustion, you awake the first thing you do is your heart flips and then you remember.....and then you burst into tears because your heart hurts so badly.

But I promise you..... it will be better. I just wish I had heard Joel Osteen's words at the time I suffered so much and so long to get me past all that quicker.

Let it go. Keep pushing ahead. Keep quiet, don't speak. Stop communication. Pray for him. If you do, I promise you God will either heal that relationship, or maybe he is pushing you to someone who will love and cherish you the way you deserve to be.

If you happen to be able to listen to Joel's sermon this week, it's about accepting change. I DVR it and listen to it over and over. Love and peace.

 

[The Encourager]

Let’s Pray… God I ask in Jesus’ name, walk through my home, the homes of all my Christian family members, Christian friends (but especially my home Lord Jesus), and the writer of this prayer, take away all our worries, fears, and doubts that You will come through for us. Come through for us Lord Jesus as You have promised in Your Word. Fix what is wrong in our lives and in our homes. Deliver us from all fears and anxieties. Deliver us from evil. If there is anything in our lives this is not of You God, Deliver us from it. God let the favor of God be upon us. Let Your presence, wisdom, understanding, strength, courage, protection, healing and deliverance power be with us and rest upon our lives. Let love, joy, peace, kindness, gentleness, and self-control rest in us and upon us. Let all the fruits of the Holy Spirit be in operation in all our lives. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in each of us. Bless us with the desires of our heart that is the will of God for our lives. Bless us. Supply all our need according to Your riches in glory by Christ Jesus.

Bless us with new jobs, better jobs, promotions, raises, and increase in our finances. Bless each of us with wisdom to become wise stewards over all that You have or will bless us with. But most importantly, let our lifestyle be shaped by the Word of God. Teach us all how to love, honor, and respect You with our life, spirit, soul, and body. And God all my family and friends that are not saved, I ask that You will send someone into their lives and minister the gift of salvation unto them. Save my family and friends Lord Jesus. I ask all of this in Jesus’ name. Amen!!!

Encourager Linda Flagg, LM, CS

Christian Life Coach & Youth Minister