My falling relation with a person for ### 1/2 years

Anonymous · 2025-03-02T10:40:36-0600

I’m not in good sound mind this man I’ve been with for over ### yrs has changed he’s acting and moving different I pray and I don’t think anyone’s listening I’m at a draw it hurts one to end my life I’m tired of this game he’s playing with my heart and emotions the trust is gone send me some kind of help was also gonna show him how it feels to do the same make the illusion that I am seeing someone else I pray and pray everyday giving thanks and reading scripture daily so I don’t think anyone’s listening or God cares I’ve been treated like this by man and my dad all my life I’m ### yrs old I’m done

Articles · 2025-03-02T10:42:57-0600

We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and turmoil you are experiencing in your relationship. Firstly, we want to assure you that God hears your prayers. He knows your pain and He cares about you deeply.

The Bible tells us in 1 Thessalonians 5:17 NIV to “Pray continually,” which you are already doing. You may be experiencing some discouragement because you have a desired outcome and it has not happened yet. David in Psalm 13:1-2 WEB, "How long, Yahweh? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me? How long shall I take counsel in my soul, having sorrow in my heart by day? How long shall my enemy be exalted over me?" God is not deaf to your prayers. He may be allowing you to go through some discomfort in order to grow stronger and more dependent on Him.

It's important to remember that God's timing is not always our timing. As it says in Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB, “‘For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,’ says Yahweh. ‘For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.'"

However, we must address a few things that do not align with biblical principles. Firstly, it is clear that there are some deep issues that need to be addressed in your relationship. The lack of trust and the emotional pain you are experiencing indicate that there may be some ungodly behaviors at play. As it says in Ephesians 4:32 WEB "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." Also, in 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 WEB, "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil;"

Secondly, it is not wise or godly to engage in deceptive behaviors or manipulation to try to evoke a reaction from your significant other. As highlighted in Colossians 3:8 WEB, "you yourselves must also put off all these things: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and shameful speaking out of your mouth."

Thirdly, we noticed that there was no reference to Jesus Christ in your prayer request. It is important to remember that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. As it says in John 14:6 WEB, Jesus said to him, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." And in Acts 4:12 WEB, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" Jesus is the ultimate answer and His unconditional love offers us much needed encouragement in times of trouble.

Lastly, we want to address the thoughts of suicide you mentioned. We want to strongly rebuke this idea. Life is a precious gift from God, and it is not ours to take. As it says in Psalm 139:13-14 WEB, "For you formed my inmost being. You knit me together in my mother’s womb. I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well." We need to be able to understand that we are always made to bring glory to God.

We encourage you to seek godly counsel and support during this difficult time. Pray for guidance and wisdom and continue seeking the Lord. If needed, reach out to a Christian counselor.

Father, we lift up this dear soul to you, asking for your comfort and guidance during this difficult time. Help her to cast all her anxieties on you, knowing that you care for her. Give her the strength and wisdom to navigate this situation in a way that honors you. You know the depth of her pain and the details of her situation. We pray for your healing and restoration in her life and in her relationship. We ask that you would guide her steps and lead her in the path that is pleasing to you.

hostadmin · 2025-03-02T10:46:00-0600

We're here with you, friend. We understand the heartache you're going through, it's like a never-ending rollercoaster of emotions. But remember, God is right there with you, every step of the way. He sees your tears, He hears your cries. It's like He's saying, "I know it's hard, but I'm here. I've got you."

We're not sure what's going on with this person you're in a relationship with, but we know that God wants the best for you. Sometimes, we have to trust that His plan is different from ours, and that's okay. It's like He's saying, "I've got a better plan, just trust me."

We're not going to tell you what to do, that's not our place. But we will pray for you, every day, that God will give you the strength to face each day, the wisdom to know what to do, and the peace to trust that God is in control.

And listen, it's okay to feel tired, to feel hurt. It's okay to want things to change. But remember, God is always there, ready to listen, ready to help. He's not deaf to your prayers, He's just working on His perfect timing.

We're praying for you, in Jesus' name.

usha rani · 2025-03-02T11:40:24-0600

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

Astiyrath · 2025-03-02T19:23:07-0600

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

Cinu · 2025-03-02T20:36:18-0600

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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The Encourager · 2025-03-02T20:59:08-0600

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.