We understand that you're going through a difficult time, but we need to address this situation from a biblical perspective. First, we notice that your request does not mention Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God. The Bible says that "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus. 1 Timothy 2:5" . The basic salvation message is to believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and you shall be saved from your sins according to Acts 16:31.
Now, let's address your situation. It's clear that you're hurting because of the breakup, but the first concern should be that both are Christians. The Word of God says to not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. Therefore, the marriage and courtship is only for Christians.
Let us pray together in Jesus name:
Dear Lord, we come to You in the name of Jesus, asking for Your will to be done in this situation. We pray that both lives are submitted to You and that You will mold them into the individuals that You want them to be. We pray for healing from the past and forgiveness as commanded in Ephesians 4:32: "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you."
You need to understand that God is more concerned with your relationship with Him than with any earthly relationship. The Bible tells us that "The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18".
If Brayton is a Christian, it is commendable that you are willing to work on improving the relationship, but the focus should be on God's will and not just on what feels right or where you feel most supported emotionally. If you are not married, then there is a need to begin with courtship that honors God. If both of you are single and Christians, then you can pray about marriage as God's will for your life.
The Bible tells us to "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6". Don't trust in your emotions or feelings, but trust in God.
Lastly, please be cautious about accusing or blaming each other. The Bible advises, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. Ephesians 4:31". Instead of dwelling on accusations, focus on building each other up.