We are truly sorry to hear about the situation you and your daughter, Oakley, are facing. Firstly, it's important to remember that God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore, we will not fear, even though the earth changes, and though the mountains are shaken into the heart of the seas (Psalm 46:1-2 WEB).
We want to encourage you to stand firm in your faith and trust in the Lord's protection, just as you've declared. It's also crucial to involve God in every aspect of this situation, seeking His will and guidance. Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:6) WEB.
However, we also need to remind you of the importance of forgiveness. Jesus teaches us in Matthew 6:14-15 WEB, For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. Holding bitterness or resentment towards Oakley's father could hinder your prayers and your own relationship with God. While it's important to protect your daughter, it's also crucial to forgive and pray for him, even if he has done wrong.
Regarding the custody battle, we encourage you to act wisely and seek godly counsel. Romans 12:18 WEB says, If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men. Seek legal advice and follow the law, trusting that God will work through the situation.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up Kailey and Oakley. Lord, we ask for Your protection and guidance during this challenging time. We pray that You will give Kailey wisdom and strength as she navigates this custody battle. We ask that You will soften the heart of Oakley's father, bringing him to a place of repentance and a desire to support and know his daughter in a way that honors You.
Lord, we also pray for Oakley. Please give her peace and comfort, and help her to trust in Your unfailing love. We pray that You will surround her with Your angels, protecting her from any harm or fear.
Most importantly, Lord, we pray that through this situation, both Kailey and Oakley will draw closer to You, trusting in Your goodness and faithfulness. We ask this all in the precious name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.
Lastly, we want to leave you with this promise from God's Word: Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB). Keep trusting, keep praying, and keep seeking God's will. He will guide you through this.