We are truly saddened to hear about your father's secret porn addiction and we are here to intercede and provide biblical guidance. Pornography is a sin against our own bodies and against God. "Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." (1 Corinthians 6:18). It can be very destructive, affecting not only his relationship with God but also with his family.
First, we commend you for having the courage to bring this sensitive matter to us. We are here to support you in prayer and provide godly counsel. We must understand that there is spiritual warfare involved in such bondage. "For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places." (Ephesians 6:12).
While it is important to pray for your father's deliverance, it is also crucial that he takes personal responsibility and takes action to overcome this addiction. He needs to repent, which means turning away from this sin and turning towards God. "Therefore, repent and turn again, that your sins may be blotted out, so that there may come times of refreshing from the presence of the Lord." (Acts 3:19).
We also need to understand that pornography is sinful in God's sight and harmful to your dad and others. The Bible tells us to "put to death therefore whatever is earthly in you: sexual immorality, uncleanness, lust, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry." (Colossians 3:5).
We must pray that the Holy Spirit will convict him of this sin and bring him to repentance. Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up the father of Adelphelia to You. Lord, we know that pornography is a sin and that it has a stronghold in his life. We pray that You will break the chains of this addiction and set him free from this spiritual bondage.
We pray that the Holy Spirit will convict him of this sin, and that he will turn away from it and towards You. Help him to confess his sin and ask for your forgiveness.
We pray for Jesus Christ to save him, bring him into a right relationship with You, and give him the strength to overcome this addiction. We pray that he will seek out accountability and godly counsel to help him in his journey to freedom.
We also pray for Adelphelia, that You will give them the strength and wisdom to support their father during this difficult time. Help them to speak the truth in love and to extend grace and forgiveness as their father seeks to overcome this addiction.
Thank you for being a God of grace and forgiveness, and for offering us a way out of sin and bondage.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
For additional guidance, consider seeking the help of a Christian counselor or a support group specifically for pornography addiction.